Is this a good way to tell her I like her more than a friend?

Question

Ok this girl im talking about is one of my good friends and I've finally decided to have the guts to tell her im starting to see her more than a friend. I know its not the best way but im gonna tell her over a text message when she's asleep so she'll read it in the morning.... main reason is if i do it at school in person every1 will know so I hope you ppl understand. So what do you think of this


(girls name) you are beautiful have a great personality and you are one of my closest friends. Im starting to see you more than just a friend...and i dont want this to affect our friendship in a bad way. So dont get freaked out by this message, its not the end of the world if u dont feel the same way... I just wanted to let you know how I feel.

So thats basically what I came up with so give your opinions or tips.... Also we're both 8th graders so think about that when you answer please. I'll pick the best answer it wont be by voting. Thanks

Answer 1

What I would do is flirt with her a little while. If it seems like she is flirting back then go for it. I like your text. Be really sentimental about it.

Answer 2

Whoa dude. Don't tell her over a text message. 1st she can show everyone, 2nd people will tease you. Go to her during luch and ask her if she could take a walk with you around the "grounds" then you start your little "speech" when you feel comfortable. Just remember once you fall into a friend category it is really hard to get out unless by some mircle she feels the same about you. so If you are "rejected" (sorry to use that word) just remember um... mistakes are there for you to learn from. you fail just improve yourself and try again. (with someone else). Good luck.

Answer 3

DON'T text her. That's tacky and young.
I recommend not saying anything for a while actually. Well, verbally, anyway. Flirt a little. Be subtle. If she's interested, she'll notice and reciprocate. If not, a text where you're baring your heart for her to crush isn't going to change her mind. If she does like you back, either talk to her in person (which is kinda awkward at first, but it'll be worth it), or, if you want to really catch her heart, send her a letter. By mail. Yes, you heard me, snail mail. The above message is good, but i'd elaborate. Be poetic. It's guaranteed to make her swoon.

Good luck! ^_^

Answer 4

if you really love her you must tell it to her personally. don't think what other ppl would say or what's the problem if everyone will knew it. the advantage of telling it with her personally is that you can take a look to her eyes and you can see what's her reaction will be...i assure you if she like you as well she can hardly hide it on the spot! ;) so take it for granted the oppurtunity to know it. and always tell the words that comes within your heart. if you don't really want other ppl to know about it you can ask her to go out with you or find a time whre she's alone! if you love him dont forget to say this words "I Love You" while looking at her eyes. we girls love to hear it from a man.. =) gud luck n God bless =)

Answer 5

(( i want to tell you my english is not that good but i try to explain in a way that u undrestand ))

ok you wanted to text message her ???

it is a very bad idea to text message ur feelings try not to if you really have to guts to her what you feel. see text messaging about your feeling should be the last effort you do to get close to her.

oh and by the way ur text message that you wanted to send her it is really bad becoz:

first you said you are beutiful => when the first thing that you say about a girl is her beauty it means you are shallow and this feeling that you have is only fling!!! and i know you are not !! and it is something that everyone would say.
anyway there are too many things in ur message that you shouldn't say to a girl ANY GIRL for the first time that you want to come close to.
**never bee too serious to a girl which she is an 8 grader. she is not ready for these kinda feelings.
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forget about the message :

*** try to go SLOW DEAD SLOW ***
*do things for her that not every best friend would do!!!
example:
take her to a romantic resturant ---- buy her a red rose each time that u meat her OUTSIDE OF THE SCHOOL.
GOAL: you can be romantic.
*try to change ur behavior with her as a best friend to a best friend who started have feelings for her BUT REMEMBER SLOWLY.
example:
talk to her about her feelings what doese she feels when she doese anything every feeling that she has.
GOAL: u are the only person she can talk to freely and can talk about anything (even any feeling) and u are the only person in her life that would undrestand her. (i know this could be really boring but it is effective)
*try to touch her more. (now this thing is really effective with girls)
example:
when you shake her hand try to shake her hand softly and longer --- and you take her hand more. or when u hug her hug her more DO NOT MAKE HER UNDRESTAND YOU FEEL HER MORE OR HUG HER MORE LET HER FEELINGS TO FEEL THAT NOT HER MIND!!!
GOAL: i do not know exactly why but this is a fact that when you touch a girl more she like u more but i have tried it it is very effective *** DO NOT LET HER UNDRESTAND THAT YOU DO THIS ONLY HER FEELINGS SHOULD NOTICE THIS NOT HER LOGIC ***
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all of this is ur first step.
UR GOAL IS TO MAKE HER FEEL THE SAME WAY THAT YOU FEEL ABOUT HER MAKE HER TO NOTICE U MORE THAN A BEST FRIEND.
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i know u are not a stupid person so you would undrestand when she feels the same way about you
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then try to talk about ur feelings about her but NOT IN A DIRECT WAY do not tell her everything in one day give her the opportunity to grasp the situation.
example:
when she laughs => u say => wow i really like the way u smile you should smile more it brings out what a great person u are (ofcourse not exactly like this u can think about something better )
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that was ur second step
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so the third step is ur last and it is related to ur second step like the time she laughs and what you said you put all of these oponions together and tell her what exactly u feel about her but in new words AND in a place which nothing can bother u and her.
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this is a slow but effective way to tell ur best friend what u feel about her and not freak her out and also the way that u urself would undrestand that she really mean something to u or it was just a fling
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There are EVIL and FASTER ways to get to her but believe me first it is going to finish ur friend ship with her and if u do not take ur steps good and without planning it would ruin ur life but it is really affective

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good luck

little john

Answer 6

i think anything via text is doom from the start. you should tell her in person.

Answer 7

write her a note.