If your happy and you love your bf/gf, why cant you stop?
2007-12-16 17:49:12 · 14 answers · asked by Mimza 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because maybe theyre bored and want to be entertained, so they cheat on another person who makes them feel happy
2007-12-16 17:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
One reason is that you often get away with it. Another is that you get some benefits from cheating.
Another factor is the thrill in taking a risk and getting away with doing something 'wrong." People find it exciting.
As example, many people cheat on diets. Suppose someone follows you around and every time you try to eat something you shouldn't, they hit you with a baseball bat! No doubt you'll find it easier to stick with a diet.
Now look at cheating. Do people cheat and get away with it? Yes, and they get some benefits from the cheating. The odds are that even when they are caught, they will cheat again.
2007-12-17 01:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by icabod 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
cause they feel comfortable with their bf or gf and they don`t want to change
2007-12-17 01:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by pamela d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just STOP already..
Every thing CAN be controlled! We are in absolute control of US! There is only one person who controls US......US!
They say "alcoholism" is a disease, but its funny, isnt it? It is the only "disease" that comes in a BOTTLE!
Its a HABIT and it can be STOPPED...by US! It just takes willpower,
2007-12-17 04:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the cheater loves his BF/GF as well as his/her spouse? Perhaps he/she can not make up his/her mind?
2007-12-17 01:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by King 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it has to do with insecurity a lot of the time
2007-12-17 01:51:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would never cheat on a boyfriend it is so S L U T T Y!!!!
2007-12-17 01:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
cause other girl/boy is better than ur bf/gf.
2007-12-17 01:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by nick z 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes I can be really paranoid and screw one of my Gfs friends , just so if she ever pulls any **** of her own , I can be all haha! yeah well i screwed Jenny , helllla days ago!
2007-12-17 01:53:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your probably not truly in love
2007-12-17 01:51:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋