guys and boobs?

Question

my boyfiend glances at breast..and im on here looking around at questions and everyones like 'because hes a guy' and all of this stuff. but i dont think thats nessacarily why, and i dont think its nessacarily means they like larger breast. why? because I notice the larger breast...we all do. not just men. at times (usually when i am pmsing) and i notice some girl with large breast then look at him and i see his eyes go down for a quick second, i get antsy and want to say something dumb like okay...well im gonna get implants and maybe youll stare at mine more. and i get immature sometimes. i find myself juggling the idea of breast implants...but he says he would NEVER want me to and always tells me he loves my breast. do some of you agree? that its not because he likes them or because 'hes a guy' but just because their in OUR FACE!!! I mean ...cmon

Answer 1

i believe you are right. if you put something out there for the world to see, then people are going to look. that's just human nature.

Answer 2

Well you all sound like 12 year olds--so lets explain it like this--Most guys start to notice the differences in men and women in their teen years--some get over it--some just never get past this obsession with breasts. Some guys like legs--some guys like butts---but I would say that men are visually stimulated and easily amused by whatever gets their attention---breasts are not looked at when a Corvette is parked nearby. Your reaction is a silly one---instead of ignoring the behavior, you insist on being a pain in the butt about it. Implants??? Give us a break--what if he liked butts--would you get big basketballs and shove them in your underwear?? get a grip and be glad he is still your boyfriend--keep up the brat routine and he will be gone!! Take a hint--relax---ignore it!!! OH yes---Merry Christmas

Answer 3

I can remember when i couldnt keep my eyes off things like that... to b honest, girls with breast do not respect a man whos eyes r focused on their breast. thats for a reason. I wont elaborate. But... Do not change urself 4 anybody. Control is very important when ur in a relationship, or any situation. He has no control, Take that for what its worth

Answer 4

It doesn't matter if ur boobs are big or small. Love is love. Nothing matters at all. Sometimes guys look but it doesn't mean that he likes what he's looking. U gotta like urself just the way u are. Don't listen to other. U gotta lead ur own life.

Answer 5

The title says it all.. Guys and Boobs.. Its like peanut butter and jelly.. Its completely natural.. Most guys will admit that they would look even though they don't find the girl in anyway attractive. As a girl with big boobs I would have to say I don't know any guy not related to me that I haven't seen looking at my chest.. Its like boobs are a magnet and guys eyes are made of metal.. Don't worry about it.

Answer 6

It is because "he's a guy." We all stare and don't mean to, its just a natural instinct for most guys. Just because we look at the bigger ones does not mean that we want our woman to have enormous boobs. They are fun to look at and fantasize about sometimes, but not what some guys want in the woman they love. If YOU want implants then that is one thing, but don't get them because you think he wants them. Its your body.

Answer 7

Don't take it as your guy looked at some chick's boobs and wants to go feel her up now. Boobs are noticable to men and women, and maybe he is thinkin that a girl's boobs are WAY too big. Just because he looks doesn't mean he likes. And your boobs have something that no other boobs have. They are attached to you and that's all that matters to him.

Answer 8

Don't do the boob-job. Start pointing out to him all the large breasted women you see, then you'll both feel comfortable with it, or he'll stop looking so hard. If your are confident in your relationship, quit worring about it.

Answer 9

its because hes a guy and because there out there. of course hes going to notice. if you see a guy that has a perfect six pack and great chest you'll probably look, it doesn't mean you want to leave your boyfriend it means your human. my grandma always said "you can get your apatite anywhere as long as you go home for dinner". i know that's strange from a grandma but she was happily married for 65 years before her and my grandad died so i think maybe she knew what she was talking about.

Answer 10

I am a guy & I would agree wid u....we see the big ones bcoz they are there to be seen. At times they sit too awkwardly at the soul carrying it :) - they end up providing an opportunity to laugh.

I would want my partner to have perfectly normal boobs....in fact I feel I am lucky to have a partner wid regular ones.

Answer 11

Yes seriously I mean some girls just wear them to show them off. I admit even I look, and sometimes I get caught staring. lol It's not just because he's a guy. It's because girls put them out there lol.