love can be a hard experience to go through and i had this thought that for most of us, we seem to want what we cant get. But when it really comes down to it i believe that a lot of people are looking for someone they can really be with. So i ask YOU......do you believe it is hard to settle for less?
2007-12-16 17:49:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its hard but possible because time differ with people that are also different, they just accept it as it is, for others its not possible 'cause they can't accept what they didn't reach and this is the most hard way of love and life.
2007-12-20 05:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by Words_Unspoken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on what point you're at.
If you're single, and you've been alone for a while, it can be pretty easy to start relaxing some of your "requirments". So what if you were looking for a blonde, that doesn't matter that much... then it turns to so what if she doesn't enjoy snowboarding as much as you do... that's ok. Eventually you relax the requirements more and more until you find someone.... That brings us to stage 2...
If you're in a relationship with someone, I don't think it's easy to settle in the long run. Anything you settled for when looking for someone will suddenly become a much bigger deal when you consider long term commitments. At that point, you may break up and say "Never again will I date a person like that" and then the requirements come back in full force... at least until you've been single a while...
So to answer your question directly, it's easy to settle when looking for a date, but it's hard to settle when looking for a person to marry.
2007-12-16 18:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by Xeno 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
optimistic, some settle for much less. yet many cases it extremely is an 'adjustment era' in a relationship once you initiate dwelling mutually or get married that makes you unhappy. in line with threat people who certainly are 'settling' don't experience all of us else would shield them and settle because of this. maximum of motives and likewise why many relationships do not final for the long-haul.
2016-10-11 11:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what less is but I will not settle for someone I know I won't be happy with , I blow off a lot of women that seem great at first then I find out about their alcohol , drug or mental problems . there is somebody out there , the more I meet the closer I feel I'm getting to her....
2007-12-16 17:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by Confused 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to emotions and being with someone you "love" - you never settle for "less" or go for the first thing - that's unfair to both you and the other person.
2007-12-16 17:54:44 · answer #5 · answered by Equinox 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is so hard because its natural to want what we can't have and most of the the time its not any better then what we have already! BE CAREFUL FOR WHAT YOU WISH FOR!
2007-12-17 12:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by heyjude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never ever settle for less. u will blame yourself till the rest of your life. always aim for the max. u aim for the max u get the max
2007-12-16 17:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm trust my faith if I'm love I will wait for it and if cant get
end of the day I wont regret coz I'm already put my effort
God will be fair our kindness and good heart .
One day we will have a good return for all of our scarification.
2007-12-20 20:03:43 · answer #8 · answered by SweetBabyDoll 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
very hard coz u knew there is much better than what u chose. :( think a hundred times.
2007-12-16 17:54:47 · answer #9 · answered by Judezen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋