Hi, my very close friend has had quite a sheltered life and because of this she is still a virgin at 26!, she's had many romantic encounters with men however nothing lasted and none were sexual, she has now met this guy who is not exactly her type (physically) and not very good-looking, however due to her age she complains 2 me that she's tired of being a virgin 4 so long and wants to have sex and is considering this new guy that she's met, she says the guy claims to love her and tells her all the time although they've known each other 4 only a week. its not as if she hasn't been told that men love her b4, its just that this time she's really fed up. How shld i advise her? she's very tired of waiting. Shd she go ahead?, or continue waiting!!!, after all she is 26. I'm scared at this rate she'll never lose her virginity! please help.
2007-12-16 23:59:50 · 10 answers · asked by Sarah Obie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Losing your virginity shouldn't be something you cant wait to get rid of! Waiting for the right one is something i wish i had done... But more importantly this man claims to love your friend so therefor she'd be using him to get her rocks off, and that's not fair.
2007-12-17 00:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by Fay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is she so eager all of a sudden to have sex, she's been patient enough till now at 26 so why is she so desperate to have sex with a fella she clearly isn't keen on, she might as well of had sex with any lad when she was younger, i'm 25 and still a virgin and proud of it, i'm not gonna have sex with someone just for the hell of it, thats sooo sad!
2007-12-17 00:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by Rainbowz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're saying he loves you... If he extremely did than he could admire your decision to attend. intercourse is a super dedication. needless to say, you fee your virginity, and he in simple terms would not comprehend that element of you. some adult men are like that, I would desire to comprehend. i'm 25 and nevertheless coping with scars left from errors made with boys (because of the fact a guy knows the thank you to admire a woman). Your boyfriend is a hormone pushed boy, and that i worry that in case you do provide in 2 issues will take place - a million) he will opt to have intercourse in simple terms as much as he desires to kiss you each and all the time that will develop the possibility of being pregnant or 2) he will take your virginity and nevertheless go away you. you are going to adore returned. you have a superb head on your shoulders to not bounce into such an severe adventure. locate somebody who respects you. not a loser who's in simple terms too *****.
2016-10-01 23:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by swendsen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has waited this long so far, so waiting a while longer is not gonna do anything.
Tell her she should be sure that he is right, because if he is a munter, and she is only gonna have sex with him because she wants to lose her virginity then its a bit of a shame. Just wish i waited till i was 26 till i lost my virginity, because you dont want her to regret what she does
2007-12-17 00:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by Scott N 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if they've only been going out a week then it is very unlikely that he loves her...figure it out what he wants, but i think she should wait. when the times right the times right, and when the guy is right the guy is right, but it doesnt sound as though she is sure she wants to have sex yet...or at least not with him...
2007-12-17 06:43:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should not have sex with this guy just to have sex. i mean she is a virgin and now she wants to become a whore just to please this jerk. i don't believe this guy really loves her after meeting her for a week. love in a relationship takes time to build i think this guy just wants to have sex with her because she is a virgin. tell her to wait for when she is ready and has feeling for a guy
2007-12-17 00:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by gasguy695 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's telling her he loves her after a week??? What a bunch of bs... he just wants to get into her pants...that's a certain. If she's not that hot over this guy, I wouldn't give it up for him... save it for someone she really likes/loves. Who cares when she's looses her virginity... it's not a contest is it??? The games people play...(sigh)....
2007-12-17 00:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by Racer 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
She should have sex when the guy is the right one not becuz she's tried of waiting !
2007-12-17 00:04:21 · answer #8 · answered by Maria 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
She's 26, she doesn't need you lecturing her. Let her make her mistakes, its the best way to learn.
2007-12-17 00:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by xenobyte72 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give her my email - I'll sort her out
2007-12-17 00:04:54 · answer #10 · answered by jamand 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋