There's a girl that likes me. I'm a Christian and she's not, but she's really really hot. Should I date her

Question

I thought maybe some of me will rub off on her and eventually she could become a Christian.

She's not religious at all.

Answer 1

You know what it says in Corinthians about how light is not supposed to mix with darkness. I am 47, and have seen many guys try to do what your thinking over my years serving the Savior. Never have I seen they been able to win her over, and, usually, the girl convinces them to abandon their faith.

Personally, even though I cannot judge your heart, I think you know what is the correct answer to your question. Why are you asking it on Yahoo Answers, when most of the people who respond do not share your faith, and will say, "go ahead, if you love her"? The following I say with Christian love and concern as your brother in Christ. I may be wrong, but I think you want they to justify what you have already predetermined you're going to do. All I can say to you my friend is to remember that the Lord will eventually chastise those who claim his name and choose to go against the authority of the Scriptures. Keep in mind this is what brought Solomon, the man who was probably the wisest man of God who ever lived, down later on in his life. My prayers for God wisdom.

Answer 2

I'm a Christian to, and I have been in your situation many times, when it comes to dating and friendship. I always have to read the few verses from the bible to get a reminder. (since you are a christian I figured you would trust the bible's advice) it warned me, not to have too much confidence that I won't sin (A), it warned me not to end up like Adam (tricked into sinning by a beautiful woman)(B), but in my case a man, it also warns me that if I am with a different type of person their habits will rub off on me(C). And don't forget to always marry in the lord. You might get lonely like me, by following these rules, if there is no one your age in your congregation, but remember the 1 about God answering prayers and (1John 5:14, Mathew 6:33) and just be righteous and every thing else will fall into place. And thanks you just reminded me that I need to have faith that God won't leave me here alone.
(A)1Corinthians 10:12.
(B)Proverbs 7:21
(C)Proverbs 13:20
You can use the link below if you your bible is not handy.

Answer 3

I see it like this.

Basically it is your right to be religious however i don't think you have the right to force your believes on to someone else. If you do like her by all means date her however she may have her own beliefs and if you respect her as a person you will allow her to have her own beliefs as you have yours. As she should respect your beliefs.

And dating someone just because they are really really hot is a shallow view point because quite simply beauty fades however the personality always reamains.

Answer 4

Maybe you should date her. I mean there are hundreds of adults who marry and are from different religions. But you cant change somebody's religion, like different married adults celebrate there religions and it didnt rub off on them. So its still totally up to you if you want to date this girl.

Answer 5

first of all.u don't just date her because she is hot.it's not about the cover,it's about the inside of u.have u ever heard "don't judge by the cover"..i think u should think about that.second of all,u can't say that "i thought maybe some of me will rub off on her and eventually she could become a Christian."it's her life.u can't do that to her.and why not date another religion girl.

Answer 6

First of all, I'm sorry but this question is ridicolously funny. You're not God. You're not the son of God. You don't own God. Another person's religious beliefs (even if she is in your family) is definetely not your business. It's between her and GOD! Not you.

I think you shouldn't date anyone before you change the way you see things.

Answer 7

so what if you to aren't christian. and if your super religious you know that your job is to spread the faith hehe. get it? ha.... anyway I would totally go for it but don't solely date her cause shes hot, i used to do that and it turns out to be a living nightmare, date someone who is in control and nice, and if shes that person. DO IT!

Answer 8

Don,t always believe that if you are closer she might change. What if she do not change? If you really love her and the doctrine in your church do not go against her then go for her but it better to iron it out first

Answer 9

Hon there are hot christian girls out there. It never works out that you influence her, she'll end up influencing you.Don't let you rlust lead you.

Answer 10

If you like her, it is OK to date outside your religion. I am a Catholic, and there is no canon law preventing me from marrying a woman outside of my religion.