I have always been open with my past boyfriends and male friends about porn. I think it is healthy for a male to have some. I have watched it in mixed company. I don't mind it.
However, I understand that men don't like to talk about it. I asked a few close male friends of mine about women being comfortable with porn, they said that it was cool/refreshing to be openminded about it, but it scares them that a women is so comfortable about it, so much that sometimes they think its awkward to watch it together ot even discuss it with a girl. It is considered as a form of speechless male bonding.
I understand that in this day and age, many women are becoming the aggressor. We all like a little porn. But is this something that should be kept segregated?
I wonder in a relationship should the women just keep quiet or speak up about their point of view on porn?
Guys: SHOULD WOMEN express their views on porn or JUST keep quiet.
2007-12-16 22:59:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am talking about early stages in a relationship. Not one where you're jack hammering the guy already.
2007-12-16 23:03:37 · update #1
It's fine for a woman to express their views on porn whether positive or negative. At the same time, viewing the stuff leads to "reactions" on the part of most all men and many women. If your relationship isn't ready for sex, you're starting down a road without a clear end. Lack of clarity about limits in relationships is not good when it comes to such intimate things. So, express your views but don't participate in viewing without a very clear understanding of the conditions.
2007-12-16 23:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-18 17:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every person has a right of speech and expression in a free world.If women have an opinion on Porn why should they not express their views.Why have any inhibitions about ones view.After all it is only your view !
Porn watching should however be a private affair and you must be sure with whom you wish to watch, Porns urge your natural insticts & desire and some times they can be very wild and may not be in the same frequency as that of others so you must be careful of the company.
If you like Porn, please go ahead and be vocal about it with your true friends.I guess it is not difficult to find out who will appriciete it and who will not.Do not indulge in Porns with those who will not like it.
It is a natural human desire to have sex and more of it in new forms and therefore to see peple do it if you cannot yourself indulge in it because of lack of partner around watch as much porn as possible.
2007-12-16 23:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by shrikant s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every guy and girl becomes atrated to the opposite sex or the same. For people who dont have much to do they will look at porn. When asking a guy or girl about this sometimes it can be very hard for guys to talk about this even. I am not sure why I look at it I guess its just another way to have pleasure without having sex. Women should be carefull when talking about this just rember guys can be embarsed as well. Oh yes it is very awkward to watch it with a girl or vice versa. But I dont think women should ask this question because you might not geat an answer.
2007-12-16 23:10:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's a matter of determining whether it is appropriate to discuss your sexual experiences/practices with the person. It is good to openly discuss these things, but as long as the other person is comfortable with it. I don't have any problems openly discussing this topic with women who I am close to.
2007-12-16 23:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by spudaust04 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can express it to your friend or more close one. For me It is not a problem for me. Cos my ex is always watching and talking about it with me. Ha so call ex. But dont get too much of discussing it Cos my ex is so into it that she cheated me having affairs with other guys.
So you yourself just dont get over your head wo.
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2007-12-16 23:17:43 · answer #6 · answered by Bren C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually find it as great thing to do with my female partner because it inspires you to try new things in life.
2007-12-16 23:04:39 · answer #7 · answered by Bigz 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think it's great that you are ok with porn.. And no I don't think you should be quiet about it..
2007-12-16 23:03:47 · answer #8 · answered by LokoLobo 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
keep quiet
i wouldn't like my gf to enjoy porn more than i do
2007-12-16 23:05:43 · answer #9 · answered by Andrei P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
kick em to the curb and move on.
2007-12-17 00:42:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋