she had to marry because of the situational compulsion.her husband loves her alot and he is asofthearted.the problem is her ex-love haunts her like any thing.he mails her and calls her using all bad words.she is fighting hard to adjust with the new life.she loves him so much so she cant even back answer him.she asks me what to do?what should i reply .i know both of them personally both loved eachother truely.i think he wanted to get set so he is doing this but what should i tell to her .is it advisable to tell her to tell the matter to her husband.i dont think he can afford it.she is as if she has lost her after hearing all these from her ex love.before that she was about to adjust with the life.what should i tell her
2007-12-16 22:52:59 · 4 answers · asked by meera menon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some people enjoy making other people miserable. Return to sender all letter mail, change the phone numbers (get them unlisted) and get new e-mail accounts. This will prevent anything but a personal visit which can be dealt with by calling the cops.
2007-12-16 22:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by MJ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is stalking her . does your friend live in the united states ? if so we have laws called anti stalking laws and this can be used to get this man to leave her alone . I think the first step would be to put return to sender on the envelope and change her phone number that is an excellent idea. good luck and god bless . If this person persists in this kind of behavior I would contact the authorities.
2007-12-17 09:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he an ex-love? Because she had to marry someone else???
If she doesn't love her husband like she does her ex, then she will have the spectre of her ex-love forever in her marriage, no matter what happens. That will eventually kill her marriage anyway.
The other thing is, you should stay out of it. You will just get blamed by someone or another. You can't help make her decisions - she has to decide what she wants.
2007-12-17 07:07:24 · answer #3 · answered by Bindy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to put "Return to Sender" on the mail, and change her phone number. He will get the hint.
2007-12-17 06:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋