hi i'm 12 week pregnant with my 1st baby and my boyfriend still looks at women and when i ask him does he look he lies to me when i can see him doing it he never looks at me its hard makeing your self look good when you sick every day.
2007-12-16 22:56:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would like to say thank you all for the help and i now kown what to do now about this and thanks again it has really helped me out xx
2007-12-17 00:56:49 · update #1
Pardon me, but I missed something. You are 3 months pregnant, carrying his baby, and he is only your boy friend? When is he going to grow a set of balls and marry you? What is this all about? Is he still trying to decide if he wants to ask you out or something? You are pregnant! You have a kid on the way. Get real here! Time for commitment. That child will need a mother and a father. Boyfriend... are you having some reality issues here? And now he is looking at other gals and maybe walking away? You both need to be in counseling. Seriously. Get this taken care of before you have to be up for 2 AM feedings and he is "working late" and maybe "forgets to call" to tell you about it.
I feel for you, Darling. You have any brothers or a dad? Maybe they can go over to him and talk with him. A nice pipe (not a crack one) along side the boy's kneecap might be just what he needs.
2007-12-16 23:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by NeoArt 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
OK listen sweetheart having your first baby is very hard guys would never believe it cause they aren't going through all of the emotions but let me tell you you don't need a guy to make you bring that baby into world buy he's looks and us women feel so ugly thinking we are no longer pretty, but let him look you concentrate on having a heathy child because if you worried about him your nerve system can't be right for the baby just let him know you recognize and the more you let him know just fix yourself to be pretty for you don't let him get next to you because pregnant women are beautiful and so are you so don't forget you are entering a new stage in your life.
Good Luck and God Bless!
2007-12-16 23:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by troubled 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like a child. How old is he?
I hate to sound like an old lady, but this is why it's much wiser to wait until you're married to a real man to get pregnant. This is the part of sex ed that they don't tell you about ... that guys who aren't mature enough to be good "boyfriends" usually don't make very good fathers, either.
But enough of the opinions about immature boys, and on to the advice. Depending on an immature guy for your self esteem is a waste of time. He will NEVER be able to make you feel good about yourself, if this is the way he acts, so you're going to have to start building yourself up and taking care of yourself.
Think about this...maybe he WANTS you to feel bad about yourself so that you will be grateful when he gives you even the smallest amount of attention. It's a control thing. The worse you feel about yourself, the more easily he can manipulate you.
2007-12-16 23:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by Lulubelle 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Everyone looks, men and women alike. We are in a relationship... not dead. Did you know that people are programmed to look longer at beauty? We look and appreciate. It is when we initiate contact that we delve into trouble. Stop asking him. Don't you think Antonio Banderas, Will Smith or Brad Pitt are good looking?
2007-12-16 23:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont worry. Think positive and do things to make you feel better. Be happy and talk to a good friend about it. He look but not more. You can look too. He love you and soon the baby too!
All the best.
2007-12-16 23:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by Positive P 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are just feeling insecure. Most preganant women get a bit insecure at times. Just tell him that you have been a little sensitive lately, and ask that he pay you more attention. Tell him that now is when you need him the most.
2007-12-16 22:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well...are you sure? When I'm walking down the street, I take in everything, SO I look at everyone. Its a weird habit, So thats what I do....so he could be doing this and not even realize it
2007-12-16 22:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by A friendly Jihad 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a. Hello abortion clinque
b. being a single mom is normal nowadays
c. Get rid of that idiot and find a nice man who will love only you and maybe even help your child in the future
Good luck!
2007-12-16 22:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by milty12345 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope you didn't think that by getting pregnant that you would get a greater commitment from your bf.
The commitment should have been there before you tried for a baby.
2007-12-16 23:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by wizebloke 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Umm... okay some guys are *****. I hope you and your child have a good life. Maybe try asking a question next time.
2016-04-09 21:25:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋