there are four of us. there is kayla, jasmine (who are best friends) and bethany and me. kayla and jasmine are the supposed leaders of the group and they always get pissed off at me and bethany. they like having us as a group but they get angry very easily. for example, i couldnt go to jasmine's dance concert because we couldnt sleepover afterwards and my mum didnt want me going home so late from the theatre. i also had work that night. i explained that too them the day before and they started swearing and screaming at me. i couldnt understand why they couldnt understand that it was my safety that was the concern. now they are fighting with me again over a stupid reason. should i stay with my friends or not?
2007-12-16 22:52:24 · 15 answers · asked by My Name Is Trip 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
wow. sounds like me and my old friends. we were the mean girls. accept im bethany and my best friend is you. she had that problem of not always making it and stuff. she had to leave prom early. and her parents did let her go to my farewell party.
anyways, kayla and jasmine are exactly like my ex-best friends. me and my bestie got sick of it. they'd stab in the back, and ruin my life. appartently for them my reputation was bigger than them. me and my bestie would be free when we had art classes, as kayla* and jasmine* did not take art. people in art class, were very cool, they loved being who they are, not caring about how popular we were. by the end of the school year. i got alot of people saying why are you friends with them? i really did think through it alot through my whole high school years. they treated me soo badly, ughh! after the school year was over, i said to kyla* and jasmine* it was over. they'll get over it. leave them now or suffer. if they are friends they should understand that u can't make it. just let them go.
2007-12-17 02:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by akarmila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i've had that problem before, and no i didnt stay friends with them. They aren't real friends if they don't care about stuff like that, like you. Its hard when leaders are best friends cuz then they get really bossy and stuff. You just kinda have to "grow apart" unless ur ok with getting into a big fight and abruptly ending ur friendship.
2007-12-17 06:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by i 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think ur friends think that u cant do anything without them. Just try to disobey what they want and do opposite to what they r doing. Just like when they ask u to go somewhere just say no. Remember show them that they need u and u dont need them
2007-12-17 06:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by Yash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those girls aren't your friends. Friendship is an unconditional relationship. A real friend would understand and wouldn't try to make you feel like crap, let alone try to lead your group of friends.
2007-12-17 06:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by nebula_coloma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you don't appreciate the way that they treat you sometimes. If they get mad, you and your friend Bethany should find some new friends.
2007-12-17 06:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably not, seems like they just care about being incharge, and being the leaders of the little group they not think they have the right to control you, and when your life should take precedence they should back you not yell at you for putting yourself first... or you could just roundhouse kick them in the face!
2007-12-17 06:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by englandforeverlove 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know Fuji, REAL friends do NOT swear and scream at you. Real friends show concern for you and care for you.
I suggest that you find some REAL friends who are sincere and kind as you are!
:-)
2007-12-17 07:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time listening to your friends words .
They are your friends if they treat you nicely
&! understands you very well :D
Widen your diameter of friends , so you
won't be in this situation :D cheerrs :DD
2007-12-17 06:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just stick with Bethany if i were you.Get rid of the other two.
2007-12-17 06:55:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont feel comfortable for them and you feel they treat you wrong and thats what happening so you better break up but before doing that step and regreating it so firstly try to ask you and let her to understand why is she angry to quickly ? then you can do your step
2007-12-17 06:56:55 · answer #10 · answered by hamood . J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋