I just brike up with my exboyfriend couple days ago, I really feel so horrible like nothing could cheer me up. It's just the thought that i can't share my life with him anymore in the future. But we decide to be just friend. What do u do to lift yourself up again?I just feel i need someone as soon as posible to replace him but i know iam not ready for any relationship. Please help , iam so lonely...
2007-12-16 22:50:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nows the time to figure out who you are. If you try and hurry to replace him you will just settle for anyone. You need to feel good about who you are without anyone before a relationship could be good. You want to enjoy being with someone not needing someone. Find out who you are and what you like to do. Hobbies, anything. Go for it.
2007-12-16 23:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give yourself 60 days and you will be over that feeling of yours, since its christmas you would really miss that boyfriend of yours, thinking about him wont be a great help you should focus your mind on other things and other people, you could try doing sports or whatever you have missed when you were still with him, but please no mellow music for a week it would just damper your spirits more...talk to friends...and dont look for another relationship it would just make things more miserable, love on the rebound wont help you nor your new love it would just be a passing fancy just stay cool and pray more
2007-12-17 06:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by impissedoff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay single for about 3 months then move on if you get a new bf straight away it will just be a rebound relationship and they never last
2007-12-17 07:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by Ulsterlad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just like wat i experienced recently . breaking up is very difficult. But on the other hand think that u r giving yourself a chance to live freely.
It is hard to do than just saying. i also have this hard time . Try to make yourself busy. And dont stop doing wat u like.
Surely one day you overcome it . I know you want someone to be near and close to you for the subs but it is no use the first thing is to overcome him. Dont even try to think of him. :P
Chat with me at chongbrendan@hotmail.com if you want to know more of overcome that.
2007-12-17 06:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by Bren C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what your going to be lonley but thats what makes u a stronger person...i defintley think u guys need to wait before making a friendship..after comes the friendship
2007-12-17 07:14:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick em to the curb and move on.
2007-12-17 08:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by panamarandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋