My wife is boring in bed!!!!?

Question

She is all about ok lets do this and get it over with.
She will not do anything new.
I have tried talking to her about it and she just get this look on her face like what the hell.
I just have been thinking about find somone on the side that is fun and not so blah..

I know I know dont do that I am just saying I am at that point..

Please help

Thanks

Answer 1

...bring home a younger, prettier woman for a threesome, see
what she says then. YOU just might be surprised.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

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Answer 4

As long as you two aren't Mormon, there might be hope. Get counseling. Now, if you're Mormon, your headed to a divorce. I honestly don't have a problem with porn. It's edutainment. Every so often you have to change things to spice it up. But, you do need to respect your wife. That's the tricky part. Maybe you two can go to a book store or Amazon.com and get some books. And, like other people said, both of you have to work on this. It always takes two to tango.

Answer 5

if your wife is boring in bed that all your flat because you should have trained her and its all on you now that you haven't. you know that old saying " you break it you buy it, so she's your buddy.

Answer 6

Have you thought about going to a sex shop and both go looking at sex toys? Doesn't mean you'll buy any, but it can be a mind opening experience with results both of you will enjoy!
Maybe if you were more attentive to your wife at other times, not just when you want to have sex with her.... you know - pay her compliments, buy her flowers, sexy lingerie, even guve her a massage-...it may all help turn her mind around !! Good luck - remember - it's not all about a quick poke and roll over..... a sexual relationship needs intimacy and variety !!

Answer 7

try something that might suprise her. like ambush her while she's in the kitchen or while she's reading a book on the bed or something.

it also depends on how long have u been married and maybe u used to do things to her that u dont do it anymore and she is shy to tell u. try to find out. often the ladies are a bit shy in pointing out what the husband has forgotten to do. like careassing or touching etc.

Answer 8

All I can say is I'm sympathetic, but nothing I've tried has worked either friend. I think some women just don't have that spark of passion and never will.

Answer 9

Talk to her and tell her again how you feel and if she is not willing to do anything about it. All I can say is she and you just should end it.
Don't cheat! If you need to be with someone else you need to end your marriage first I don't believe in cheating at all! No matter what!

But I do believe that a marriage survives when there is good communication and Great sex!
Yes there is other things to but they are the key.
So again try to talk to her,bring in the romance for her, make her want to be with you again.

Answer 10

I feel your wife's pain. Sometime's I don't want to have sex for 1/2 hour or an hour.Sometimes I just want a wham bam thank you ma'am. Sometimes I have sex because I know my husband wants too and I feel obligated as his wife.We all have needs. My husband makes the same sacrifice for me when he isn't in the mood and I am, and he gives me that same look your wife gives you.

Are you saying you and your wife NEVER have fun in bed? I find that hard to believe. It doesn't always have to be roses and candlelight. Sometimes it can just be quick and easy. Especially if she is tired...or if it's in the middle of the day on the weekend and she has crap she wants to do.

Answer 11

Don't have an affair, do go to therapy. Find out why she is like that. Does she not get off or is she just asexual? This would be hard for you two to talk about because it will sound like an accusation from you. Seek professional help.