ok i like this guy he is being fallowed by an insane person , my friends said i should go out with him ,we are friends, i told him i liked him and he dosent care , we have not talked latley ,and i think my friends have been bothering him to . is it all worth it ,how do i get past the problems??
2007-12-20 12:51:55 · 23 answers · asked by arta95 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If HE doesn't care - then all the rest of the issues mean NOTHING!!!
HOW can you go out with a guy who doesn't WANT to???
THAT is the question here - finding a way to get him to CARE ;);););)
2007-12-20 12:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't care? Ugh how messed up. If he's not trying to put any initiative in getting with you, then he's not worth it. You don't want someone who doesn't try to fight for you even a little. Also, getting your friends involved is probably a bad idea. Would you like it if people were forcing you to go out with someone? Also, he has an insane person following him so he's probably under some bit of stress right now lol. As the saying goes, there are plenty of fish in the sea. Best to go after the one that bites
2007-12-20 20:58:59 · answer #2 · answered by thedaybear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, If you like this guy... and he has an insane person following him around.... doesn't it stand to reason...that she would start following you too?! SOOooo as long as ya don't have a problem with a threesome I'd so go for it lol. Or at least wait till his little shadow has lost interest in him. I'd hate ya to get involved and then find out little insane person goes psycho on ya....there's just too much weirdom going on in the world today to play it any other way than SAFE!
2007-12-20 21:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by private 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it was me id start by ignoring him,if you do think that you friends have been bothering him about it,you should ask them outright and let them know that you think they are not helping matters and you would appreciate it if they'd stop coz at the end of the day it isnt helping the situation.maybe if he was left alone things could maybe get better and once he see you are not showing any interest in him he may well approach you,as guys dont like to be ignored.hope this helps and at the end ot the day who knows it may have a happy ending.good luck.
2007-12-20 21:04:12 · answer #4 · answered by spaggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone or you will be dragged into his problems. If he is being followed by an insane person, if you date him you will be the enemy. Wait until this is all fixed before you enter the picture. Don't bother talking to him until the stalker is out of the picture.
2007-12-20 20:55:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I do not think it is worth it plus he does not seem to be that interested.
You want someone that feels the same way you feel about them.
To have a one sided relationship is just out and out yucky, your always trying to get them to care for you the way you care for them and it Never works.
What I use to advise my daughter's friends, is just 3 strong words, "dump the dude".
Merry Christmas
2007-12-20 20:57:23 · answer #6 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, so as i understand you like him and uve been friends the reason he isnt talking to u is probebly b/c he is still shocked. no 1 really knows. tell him that ur worried about ur friendship 2 gether he might understand and who knows maybe u 2 will get 2 gether
best wishes,
lilsophiegirl
2007-12-20 20:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you see him say hi and start a conversation. If he does talk the only thing left would be to ask him if he does or doesn't like you. Thats the only way i can think of.
2007-12-20 20:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by Pagsar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! i think we are living in the same world. the exact same thin is happening to me. however, i must be insane. i just sent him a friend request on my space. i also send him a message asking him if he wanted to go out with me. hopefully that solved my situation, but i really have no advice for you caz i don't know what to do with my problem, which is also your problem...
2007-12-20 20:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by lexie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the "insane person" is the major worry here....the rest sounds a bit 'angsty'
2007-12-20 20:55:26 · answer #10 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋