A guy and a girl become friends first. After two months of friendship, the guy lies to the girl and says he is single when he's actually married for a year. Sleeping with the girl for months, then she figures out that he's married.
He says his marriage was a mistake and he's in love with her. (he was 27 when he got married, I think an early age). The girl stops seeing him, in the meantime he's getting divorce and still wants the girl.
Girls, would you try your chance with this guy (let's say you really love him)?
Guys, what do you think about this situation as a man?
2007-12-20 11:18:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's divorced now
2007-12-20 11:24:52 · update #1
Well he did lie to you!! a huge lie at that!! But I can tellt that you really love him and maybe you should give him a chance, but let him know that he's not just gonna have your trust right away and he has to do alot to gain your trust back. So give it a chance and if he still can't be trusted let it go and move on.
2007-12-20 11:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I stay with my boyfriend too and he also owns the living house and rents out part of it. He will pay a small part of the loan each month, and the expenditures. I pay for each of the nutrition procuring, the water invoice, all kitchen and loo elements, and residential purchases (towels, bedding, decorations...) alongside with my personal personal expenditures, vehicle, coverage, cellular, health middle, and so personal. I also do each of the chores, the laundry, errands, and save the living house in consistent pristine difficulty. i think like I earn my save. and that i artwork finished time besides. i imagine that's critical that we both make contributions to the kinfolk and the relationship, even even if that's in numerous thoughts. i think that considering he owns the living house and has the loan paid off virtually in finished each month (from the tenant) that it is a honest difficulty. I surely have provided him lease and he tells me he would not choose it. Plus if we ever chop up he of route nonetheless keeps the living house and may want to nonetheless ought to pay a similar volume of money each month in expenditures. i imagine if you're planning a destiny together then it would properly be an equivalent divide. because you're of route no longer satisfied i imagine you ought to imagine about it and communicate it along with your household and acquaintances. possibly you ought to flow out and then see if he misses you a lot and realizes all you do for him.
2016-10-19 21:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would Not date a man who Ever did that to a woman! If you were to become serious with this man, what's to stop him from lying to other female 'friends' about you? I know it seems easy to give him a chance, but in the long run, your own mental health could be a stake. I'm speaking from experience :(
2007-12-20 11:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What makes your friend think that if he does get a divorce and gets with her that he won't do the same to her?
2007-12-20 11:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by mamasita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me????? There is no way I would try it out with him, he's obviously a liar and if he's cheating on his wife wih a girl, then he will cheat on you as well. I wouldn't be fooled by his scheme. Why should he have his cake and eat it too.
2007-12-20 11:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by momma`````` 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not give him a chance at all. First of all he lied about being single. No way.
2007-12-20 11:24:01 · answer #6 · answered by sddq_nn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
even though u really really love him, what if he married u and the same thing happened again?! that would be terrible. how do u think his wife felt when the divorced. i think its disgusting...no offense. but thats my opinion...it all up to u.
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2007-12-20 11:23:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
27 is not young but maybe for an immature man. no, I wouldn't have any respect for a liar!
2007-12-20 11:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by marianne o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, once a cheater and a liar, probably going to remain a cheater and a liar.
2007-12-20 11:22:53 · answer #9 · answered by C1-J2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea i agree 27 is too immature....if you're mentally retarded, which you obviously are if you're considering getting back together with a guy who's going to end up cheating on you.
2007-12-20 11:22:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋