I am having issues with my ex-boyfriend. We broke up about 3 years ago,but he's still around because we have children together. We had a long term relationship lasting about 9 yrs.When we broke up he immediately started dating an much older women,who is unnatractive and old enough to be our mother! We were still messing around (off and on)while they were still together but I did'nt know he was still seeing her.He was at my house all the time and never mentioned her !Anyway,he say's go on with my life he does'nt love me.but he get's very jealous about other guys.He goes through my phone,(behind my back)ask me questions like,where are you going? who are you talking to?,etc.He has admitted to still having feelings for me before,but then he will act like it never happened.I know he is still physically attracted to me because gets upset if another guy looks at me.Do you think that he still has feelings for me ?
2007-12-20 11:37:29 · 2 answers · asked by mia s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No dear - he's a control freak - keep your distance as best you can
2007-12-20 11:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women and men would be angry if their exes do not behave in a jealous manner while some couldn't care less. I suppose it depends on the individual and how secure they are with themselves. Jealousy isn't about males of females. You're handling the fact that she's with another guy very well and should keep it up. If it makes your ex angry, then it is her problem to deal with. She's probably more angry that you have a new girl than she is that you're not jealous of her new boyfriend. It does sound like your ex is jealous and angry but again, it is her problem. If the **** talking is bothering you or your new girl, one of you should confront your ex and let her know that it's completely unnecessary. She shouldn't be taking her anger out on someone who has done her no wrong. Perhaps she experiences this new relationship of yours as persecution and feels justified in bad-mouthing your girlfriend. From the way you've described your ex, you should feel lucky that you are rid of her. If she doesn't talk to you then you're even luckier.
2016-05-25 05:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by maribel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋