I want to move out..but my parents wont let me.?

Question

Im 15, living with my mum dad and sister. I know ive caused them a loto f aggrivation over the years, im seeing a theropist and have deression. YEsterday they rang me when i was with my boyfriend tellign me to come home, i said no. In the end they came and foundme, brought me home and told me i wasnt part of the family. My lose friends' parentsh ave offered to ttake me in for as long as i need to give me and my aprents both soem time to think. I think this will be a good way becausei t will solve problems. My mums telling me i cant go. I wnat to go. What do i do, i cant bare to stya here anymore

i live in england

Answer 1

Well you aint gonna like this......
You obviously have problems/issues which probably explains your behaviour. You are not old enough to leave home and take care of yourself, Yes I know your 15 and not a child but your also not an adult. If you where then you would be behaving like one and doing what your parents ask, NO parent will ever say yes to everything their children ask - get used to the fact that they will say no - also your in therapy for depression, your parents are looking out for you. A break from them may help but in the end your problems issue may well stem from your parent or how you see your parents. Good luck

Answer 2

Why do think your parents came to find you? They don't want to ruin your life, they are doing this because they LOVE you! Not because they get kicks out of telling you not to do things.

A parent who doesn't care would just let you go off and do what you like. Maybe you're not acting as part of the family. There's only so much help you can give someone. Yes, some parents are over protective but when you've grown up a bit, you'll realise that they only want whats best for you. Stop breaking their hearts, go home and start acting the way you would like to be treated.

Answer 3

You could end up like this............
More than 8,000 people - men, women and children live without a permanent home every night in King County. This is a sobering statistic, especially when you consider:

65%, or more than 3,000, are families with children
Children aged 0-17 make up 31% of the people living in shelters
More than 1,000 people accessing shelter or transitional housing on the night of the one night count reported a recent history of domestic violence
Over the course of a year, it is estimated that over 24,000 people will experience an episode of homelessness.
There are many reasons for homelessness and even better reasons for finding solutions.

Or your family can become more loving and care for each other..............

Answer 4

I'm in Oregon. At 15 and disobeying a parent the court will, indeed let you move out. All the parents have to do is contact the court and file that you are disobedient and in rebellion. And your next residence will be the state corrections home for girls. Also keep in mind that your parent's obligation to give you financial support terminates when you leave without permission. Most states are similar.

Answer 5

go and stay with your friends for a short while it will give you all some breathing space, but you will not be able to abuse these people by staying out late etc, they will be responsible for you, may be you will understand how your parents feel and how they are treating you the way they are.
I left home at 16, but was far too young to cope, 17 I was much more mature, it was still tough though.

Answer 6

How can you solve a problem if you're somewhere else?

You are only fifteen. If you live under your parents roof then obey their wishes.

You said you have issues. Deal with them. Once you find yourself then everything else will fall in place.

If you truely love your family then take the time to find yourself and bond with them. It's the only family you have and if they really are trying then give them a chance.

Love, peace and hair grease!!!!!!

Answer 7

you're two decades of age, they are in a position to no longer make that form of selection for you. they are going to of direction be disillusioned in case you pass, yet you need to enable them to be attentive to that it quite is something which you're feeling very solid approximately and which you are able to have your guy or woman independence. clarify to them the financial statement you and your buddies have worked out, so they sense greater mushy alongside with your selection, regardless of each and every little thing they are in basic terms frightened approximately you and decide to be attentive to which you will no longer end out residing on the streets as many do. tell them how lots you adore them and which you will ring them each and every possibility you get and that in case you hit upon it too stressful to regulate which you will come decrease back abode. wish this facilitates and solid success.

Answer 8

Being 15 is a very hard thing to be. You have alot of emotional roller coasters you are goin through. Sounds like you are trying to fill a void in your life and you are searching but not finding what you are looking for. I am so sorry you are going through this anguish. Its not a happy place to be. You feel like you are a burden to them because you are acting out. Sometimes it seems easier to run away from our issues and difficult relationships . We get in a fight or flight mode. If we stay we fight so it seems easier to go.
My sincere suggestion is that you need to learn some good coping skills to help you get through these difficult times of fight or flight. When you find yourself so overwhelmed with anger and you want to fight with them plan with them for you to have a time out. Just go to your room or someplace to remove yourself from the situation. You need to try and talk with them about giving you this tool. You will find it so helpful and so less hurtful for them as well as you. Go to your room and write in a jornal if you can of everything your feeling. Then as time passes you will calm down.
Healing wounded relationships with parents is so necesary for you to feel good about who you are and for them to feel good about who they are as parents. You are 15 and need their support and guidance. I know it doesn't seem like it sometimes. You really just want the tension to ease,. Try this tool and you will be amazed. You have the rest of your life to be without them. Someday they won't be around and you will miss them. Trust me. No parent wakes up and says they are going to screw up their child. But its a hard job being a parent and its even harder being 15. Breath, it will be alright. Give them a hug its Merry Christmas time. I hope I have helped you I truly know what you are going through.

Answer 9

Technically, after leaving school (Aged 16+). You can leave home. Sit down and talk with them.

Answer 10

you have to wait till your 16, soz. and then you can only leave if you have a place to live. i did this when i was 16 and was told it legal by the police, good luck