Okay, so there are these two guys that i've liked for a long time. I think they like me too though. Today, (Thursday December 20) was the day that we get off of school for winter break. I didn't want to leave these two guys for three weeks without them knowing that I like them. (Note: these two guys are like really good friends) So after school, I each told them. They didn't seem that surprised, or maybe they were just realy shocked. So I give them a hug and everything, and I go home. The second I walk through my front door, I realized that I made a huge mistake. I shoudn't have told two guys, which I both like equally, who are friends, that I like them. I don't want to be like one of THOSE kind of girls that goes out with two guys at the same time. I'm kinda just hoping that one of them will stop liking me over break, so my desicion is easier. This sucks, please guys give me some advice. (Note: I have no way of communicating with these guys, no e-mails or phone numbers)
2007-12-20 20:55:07 · 11 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lisa you didnt do anything wrong with telling both guys. The fact that you told them both instead of hiding it was very mature of you. If they are really good friends chances are that they will talk about it over the holidays and decide what to do. Now this MAY entitle you to make a decision between both of them. Which will be hard but you have 3 weeks to decide what to do.
You dont have to date both guys and no ones asking you to but chances are likely that you will have to make a decision.
2007-12-20 21:10:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the time go by without contacting them......you have no choice because you don't know how and where to contact them, which is good. After the holiday you may find that they both like you and will make it a point to see you whenever they can. At times in a trio like this the three of you will be together a lot. Time will tell who likes you the best and who you like. for all you know you will meet another fellow who you like even more. These things go in cycles when you are young and when you grow older things seem to settle down and choices aren't as difficult. Don't push it. Let it happen in its own good time. A year from now those two fellows may be a memory.
2007-12-20 21:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you wont be seeing them over the Christmas break will you (unless you happen to meet them when you are out). Dont worry about it, relax and have a nice Christmas break and in the new year back at school it will all work out fine - keep in touch with both of them because having more than one guy is always safer - you can choose the right one for the right occasion!! Have FUN!!
2007-12-20 21:05:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's how I met my husband. So weird to see that you posted the same situation. In my case, they were friends, both on the wrestling team and it was the day before Xmas break when I told both of them. I tell ya, it was the best thing that I didn't have contact with either of them. It gave them time to think about me. I came back from break and didn't even have to approach either of them...they just both came up to me (separately) and asked me out! I guess it's kinda like playing hard to get...the easy way.
Anyway, good luck to you and please post more to this question if you have more to add. I will check back and respond.
Best Wishes!
2007-12-20 21:02:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took you until you got home to figure that out? That is like waking up in the hospital in a body cast and realizing that you shouldn't have walked off the top of a 6 story building.
2007-12-20 21:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they just think your friendly and go around hugging any guy you see.
Maybe they think youur kinda weird.
If either one is interested in you, dont worry, he will find a way to contact you.
Remember no man ( or school girl) can serve ( Or like as in your case)two masters ( read cool guys) , for he ( she) will love one and despise the other.
Either way forget about them and just enjoy your holidays.
2007-12-20 21:03:38 · answer #6 · answered by brian p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll probably be saved from going out with two guys at the same time because these two will likely tell one another that about your confessions...I don't know what you can do but wait until school starts again.
2007-12-20 21:01:10 · answer #7 · answered by MarySunshyne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but you've spilled the drink, and there's no way to consume it now without slurping it off the floor...and that's never a respectful place to put yourself.
Just cross you fingers that one dude isn't interested and the other is, and they're cool enough to work that out among themselves. The ball is out of your court now - leave it to the fates and just take what comes your way.
2007-12-20 20:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell u the best resolution..
durin first few days of holiday, talk to both of them on th phone, sms, msn, etc..
the main point is CHOSE 1.. there is sure to b 1 better than the rest..
find out who's the 1 u like more.. go out with each of them (not alone but with a group of friends)..
once u find out who's the 1, then date him.. treat him right..
good luck!
2007-12-20 21:02:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are different ways of using and understand the word 'like'. You can like someone as in enjoy their friendship and their company (which is what I think you really mean with these chaps), or you can 'like' someone as in fancy them sexually. Once you understand and make this distinction clear to others, there shouldn't be a problem.
2007-12-20 21:02:56 · answer #10 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋