I was out of town for couple of weeks but she still came to my place and stayed in night with my room-mate. She said they played cards and slept in different rooms. Should i beleive that? Or should i dump her right away?
2007-12-20 19:41:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I dont know if you should belive her but I dont see why you cant either. I dont know her the way you do. But what I do know is that she had no reason to stay there with your room mate. Like she didnt have better things to do the play cards. I dont know maybe she shouldnt be trusted. I know that if my BF was out of the house I wouldnt be in there unless I had to pick something up.
I think you should have a talk with her and let her know that it wasnt right for her to stay there when he wasnt there. Try to put her in you situation
Good Luck
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2007-12-20 19:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was wrong of her to do that. The reason she stays at your place is to be with you, not to stay in your house. She may be telling the truth, but then again, maybe she isn't. Start asking questions, not just to her but also to your room mate. I think you should be able to tel my their answers and the way they answer if they are telling the truth or lying.
2007-12-20 19:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did she come to your place knowing you werent gonna be home? Thats what I'd be asking myself. Keep an eye out on both or blatanly ask your roomie over a few dozen beers of course did they sleep together. Pretent and tell him youre gonna dump her so it doesnt even matter anymore and ask him to tell ya the truth. Lie and say you been with one of her friends. Say whatever you have to, to make him spill it cause most likely she wont tell ya. Good Luck and I hope it works for the best.
2007-12-20 19:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by mistista07 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Before you dump her you need to ask her and your room mate about it.. She may have just missed you and enjoyed being in you apartment. Plus if she was cheating on you with your room mate why would she tell you she was there..Good Luck
2007-12-20 19:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by skittles_ga1986 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are letting Y!A users decide the fate of your relationship? Oh yeah, that's real mature... I suggest you end your relationship now, because it probably isn't going to last much longer anyway with the lack of trust in your girlfriend and your immatureness.
2007-12-20 19:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by oozahnawahtzyl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she knew you were out of town what was she there for? Sounds funny. Tell her that you are suspicious, and that she needs to confirm why she was there while you were away. If it was for non emergency reasons, get rid of her. That seems like blatant disrespect to me.
2007-12-20 19:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by ღρяєттγ мσм ìи ρìиκღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been dating? Because if you don't know her very well you won't be able to tell if she was cheating or not but if you guys have been dating for more than 12 months I can't believe there would be a girl stupid enough to ruin that relationship.
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2007-12-20 19:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really don't think she should have spent the night with you not there it just causes this kind of thoughts to happen regardless if she missed you are not ..Sounds kinna funny to me
2007-12-20 19:48:35 · answer #8 · answered by Hulagirl96734 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know why she would be kickin it with your roommate that is extremely inappropriate. regardless of whether or not anything happened doesn't really matter. if she didn't have the where with all to avoid the obvious "appearance of wrongdoing" she might not be girlfriend material.
2007-12-20 19:47:22 · answer #9 · answered by Tru2myself 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i depends how you found out
2007-12-20 19:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋