i was a daddys girl and i never realized how much my daddy loved me till he was gone now my mom just talks to me when she needs me to babysit my sisters grandchildren i do not work i have never told my mom no in 43 years of my life i believe in respect for her i love her very much she will not even speak to my grown children
2007-12-20 19:53:11 · 7 answers · asked by ggmlls 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think that it is rather impossible that a mother does not love her child. Sometimes the love is being overshadowed by anger or disappointment but deep down she loves you.
I think it is possible to make her aware of it again and since you are worrying and thinking about the feelings of your mother so much I would say you are halfway there.
A point to start is probably to try to think of why your mother could be disappointed in you or why she is angry with you and if it is something you need to apologize for: do it! I think forgiveness is the best way to find back together.
Good luck to you and your mother. I really think you can solve your differences.
2007-12-20 20:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No mother should treat her child that way. Sorry.
It's time you stood up to your mom and tell her how you feel. Be kind and gentle, let her know that you do love her. Let her know how much it hurts you that she only calls you when she needs you to watch your sister's grandkids, while ignoring your children. You are not there to be ignored except when she needs a favor.
I'm going through a similar (but different) situation with my dad and sister, so I know how you feel.
Good Luck
2007-12-21 04:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. WC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mothers will never stop loving their children. She knows that you love her, it's a mother's instinct. She may not talk to you, or shout at you, but deep down she loves you. It sounds like you need to meet up with her sometime, or send her a letter telling her how you feel. Good luck. :)
2007-12-21 04:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as much as a mother would like to stop loving thier kids once in a while it very rarely ever happens!!! We may not like you sometimes and we may even hate u too once and a while but we never, ever stop loving you-EVER!!
2007-12-21 04:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by buffster06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You try to mend the relationship. If that doesn't work, you let the void in your heart be filled by other people.
2007-12-21 03:58:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just look for your kids then you should know how much your mother loves you.
get connected.
2007-12-21 06:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by ahm28meh71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you love her
2007-12-21 03:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by mistista07 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋