Family & Relationships - 20 December 2007

Everybody thinks being single is so wonderful ! If being single is so great, why doesn't EVERYBODY in the world break up with their romantic partners and then SWEAR TO GOD never to get into another relationship ?

2007-12-20 06:23:03 · 2 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Singles & Dating

she is a big slut and you leave her? What's the double standard all about?

2007-12-20 06:22:37 · 28 answers · asked by God Bless America!~ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been married for 6 years but i have been seeing an ex boyfriend and i really like him and want to leave him . should i leave my husband for him?

2007-12-20 06:22:16 · 23 answers · asked by SEXYCHICK2008 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have to say reading the responses that DonJ gives is so kind. He never says anything that will hurt your feelings. I want to cry when he says that he can't wait to hold his wife tonight at 6. He's a wonderful man don't you agree.

2007-12-20 06:21:55 · 18 answers · asked by Debbie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently got dumped by this guy and I am feeling very sad right now.I can't wait until this whole ordeal is over with and I can finally get on with my life.This guy who is so fine lead me on for who knows why and I wanted to know if anybody could help me .Now that I have been let down by this guy I am hurt but I am also scared because he is very violent towards me and I don't want any trouble with him.What should I do to keep this guy away from me even though we are close friends?Please help me if you can.Thank you.

2007-12-20 06:21:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay well I'm 18 and a freshmen in college and don't drink alcohol but my friends do and I find nothing wrong with that and I never drank in high school either. Lately I feel that maybe I should because I don't want people to think that I'm boring and since I'm going to a different school next semester I figure it would be a good way to meet people. It seems like that's all everyone I know is interested in they know I don't drink and don't care and I don't drink because I think it's stupid. I just feel somewhat left out like I'm missing out on something and I'd have more fun doing stuff like that and other stuff too. I do have fun doing other stuff I'm not boring people tell me I'm fun and funny ext. But I can't always get them to do other stuff sometimes all they ever do is talk about drinking and when they do drink they make fools of themselves and think it's funny but it's not. I tell them they look like idiots but they don't listen. What do you think I should do?

2007-12-20 06:20:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I live in a horrible area to date people. It's a legacy mill village with your typical descendants of low brow mill rat trash. I'm not saying there is anything wrong with these people. Well if you listen to the police scanner and watch my local news you'd think different but people are people and they don't know better. I've noticed that all my close friends aren't from here. There is a genetic problem with the people that live in my area. I'm not attracted to a girl that doesn't understand why you shouldn't sleep with your cousin or thinks it's OK to have sex with an old boyfriend on your birthday. Everyone I talk to and explain my problems to tells me to move. I'm not sure where to or if moving would fix my problem. People that have moved here say that people are abnormally stupid here. Realistically I believe people are going to be the same no matter where I go. If I did decide to move. Where could I go?

2007-12-20 06:20:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-20 06:20:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Mother Is 54 She Is Frail, Delicate, Loving. They Have 8 Kids. Not One Of Them Is Bad In Terms Of Behaviour And Personality. My Sister Is 12 She Goes Out And We Have To Have The Police Involved To Get Her Back. My Mother Gets In To This Awful State, Where She Cries And Even Gets Rushed To Hospital Becuase She Gets Heart Problems From The Stress Of A Missing Child. So Lazy She Gets Told To Do Something And She Doesnt Do It. She Swears At My parents, She Lies And Goes To The Sociol Services And Says She Is Getting Beaten. She Ranaway 5 Times. Me An My Older Brother Have To Go Looking Across The Town To Look For Her. My Father Is Aggressive. He Loves All His Children Except Her. Becuase Of Her Behaviour. My Mother Stops Him From Beating My Sister. I Am 15 And Everyone Is Telling Me To Beat Her. That Way She Wont Be Bad. What Should I Do. What Should We Do. Send Her Back To Our Home Country Which Is A Deprived Country. Should We Disown Her. Contact Social Services. My Parents Are Scared

2007-12-20 06:19:43 · 6 answers · asked by The Wonderful Me 4 in Family

I have done a pretty big trouble before (1 year ago) and did the same thing again and again. Now my parents doesn't even trust me. i know that i deserve it but i want to gain their trust and gain some credit. I want to reverse what i have done. I need to gain it in 1 year.
please help me. I'm so grounded right now that i can't even use the computer and they confiscated it from my room.
I was grounded 1 year ago.

2007-12-20 06:19:23 · 24 answers · asked by Allen Walker 1 in Family

I am 17 years old and I got a part time after school job at a discount store. The last time i was at work was on Tuesday and this guy came in a gave me a fake 20. I never saw a fake bill before so i checked it with the pen and I was holding the mans change in my hand. Before I could look at the bill, the man just grabbed his change and his bag and ran out of the store. I was wondering why he did that and then noticed that the bill was fake after about 2 min after the guy left. I showed it to my boss, thinking it was the right thing to do, and he yelled at me in front of everyone. I have been working there since august and he never yelled at me. I started like tearing up because he yelled at me in front of all my friends and co workers and i was totally humiliated. Later my boss came over and apologized, saying that he felt bad cause he went off on me. I accept it apology, but now i still feel totally embarresed to go back to work. How should I handle it?

2007-12-20 06:17:29 · 7 answers · asked by rEaDy4cHaNgE 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

and you were granted to have one thing (anything at all) for christmas ... what would it be? Anything at all!!!!

2007-12-20 06:17:19 · 49 answers · asked by memyslf&I 3 in Marriage & Divorce

like actually having sex or anything physical? On your wife. thank you.

2007-12-20 06:17:07 · 12 answers · asked by mommy to be of 3 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Its a long story so ill give the gist of it. Girl friend moved out two weeks later shes pregant. I left her another woman and she got pissed of and know will not talk to me at all. I have know idea what is goig on with my child and am trying to smooth things over to no avail. We were living toghter for 4 years and she cant even tell whats going on with our child or answer the phone. ive gone to her work called texted and had mutual friends call to no prvail. what the heck can i do to show her my heart is with her and our child.Its been two weeks and still nothing. what do i do?

2007-12-20 06:16:40 · 4 answers · asked by Christopher P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, i see him at school. When he sees me he always smiles and says hello and he always seems to ask me things so that he can talk to me even though he knows the answers.
When he has football, and i'm near the changing rooms, he usually slaps me with his goalie gloves then smiles at me and asks if im alright.
He offers me his jacket when im cold
He seems interested in what i do.
Usually, if a guy acted this way with me then i would think that they liked me...only i have no idea if this person does...And there is no way i can ask him.
Please tell me what you think. Thanks xxx

2007-12-20 06:15:27 · 7 answers · asked by rachhiiee 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a follow-up to my past question a few days ago. I mentioned that for a very long time now this has been going on. When i get up in the morning and get into the shower, i can here my wife get up and go down the stairs to log onto her work computer. I know she works from home in the morning but i find it hard to beleive that she starts at 4:30-5:00 AM but she says she is just logging on..... FOR 15-20 minutes i ask her ?? I know hse is reading personal E-mails because if i sneek down stairs she will click off the screen and lock thecomputer out and get in the shower then. Also. what is also strange, if i try to iniceate sex with her, she gets defensive and gets all tence i see she is not into it , like a duty or obligation. Than maybe the next day or two, if she comes to me for sex and i turn her down or just say i am not interested, she gets upset like she is loosing the control over me. I think my wife likes to be in control over me with sex. she seems to be very controlling.

2007-12-20 06:15:15 · 5 answers · asked by danomanfishing 1 in Singles & Dating

Husband of 12 years works 9-5; plays EQ2 from 6pm to midnight. Playing games on-off for years...some years he stopped completely and began going out & hanging out with guys from work. Going out stopped and EQ2 resurfaced to a 40 plus hour addiction. Eats at the PC. We go to bed together. For the past two weeks, he & I have gone out on dates Saturdays - it actually feels good to spend an evening with him and have his 100% attention. But come Monday, he's back at the PC....what else could I do?

2007-12-20 06:14:44 · 23 answers · asked by DG 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...because you KNOW he's not gonna hit you? In other words, do you use that as leeway to do whatever it takes to win the argument?

2007-12-20 06:12:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

why does my husband think because he works he doesnt have to do anything with the baby?

2007-12-20 06:12:15 · 37 answers · asked by cindy_luyster 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We broke up two weeks ago, i like a second chance with her. Partially it was my fault . i know my faults and have confessed to her that im sorry and for her to forgive me, she said no. She seems to be still mad at me. I still love her. what should i do to make things better for us. She wants to be friends right now.

2007-12-20 06:11:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one day after midnight i saw light on the bedroom of my father and my mother i looked on the hole of the key i saw my father on my mother practice love with her and i astoneshed bcz they both get orgasm after that day i found in their room fiagra but i astonished how mother could reach to orgasm in its age .is it normal or not

2007-12-20 06:10:57 · 9 answers · asked by emad a 1 in Family

2007-12-20 06:10:47 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-20 06:10:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf has young kids and told me today that he has bought his ex a gift "from the kids" i cant handle this.... its killing me and hurting me too much b/c he doesnt realize he is giving her reasons to believe they will get back together how do i deal with this now?

2007-12-20 06:09:14 · 28 answers · asked by beautiful stranger 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-20 06:07:57 · 51 answers · asked by tricey757 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this girl for about a month and she is really starting to piss me off. Im this close to just calling the whole thing off. First of all shes 21 and still lives with her parents. I on the other hand have my own APT. So she is constantly over here. She tells me what I can and can not eat now. She cleans my room so I have no idea where anything is. She doesnt want me to hang out with some of my closes friends because she says their to immature. Hmmm lets see what else o yea she yells at me everytime I play Halo 3. I almost feel like telling her to shut the hell up and go back to her parents house. Jesus cant she leave me alone for 1 fricken day!? I need help here. Is there a way I could deal with this or should I just break it off now?

2007-12-20 06:07:16 · 6 answers · asked by Mr. Martini 3 in Singles & Dating

EVERYONE THINKS THAT HE IS CAPPING HER HEAD UP BUT IT'S NOTHING LIKE THAT BECAUSE WHY WOULD HE DO THAT? THEY DONT HAVE SEX ALL THE TIME MAYBE ABOUT ONCE EVRY 2 WEEKS AND THATS IT. THEY ARE IN LOVE AND THEY EXPRESS IT. SHE IS VERY MATURE AND HAS HER STUFF STRAIGHT. THEY JUST THINK THEY GOT TO MAKE IT WORK AND NOT LISTEN TO ANYONE, HATERS ANYTHING!!!

2007-12-20 06:07:09 · 15 answers · asked by ReRe545 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-20 06:05:58 · 28 answers · asked by Hello 3 in Singles & Dating

Would like to be with a man that is totally secure in himself, confident, intelligent and nice. He can go blow for blow with any woman, however he wants a woman to be dominant over him in their relationship. In his everyday life he is in charge and he wants his wife to take charge of him. Make him submissive. Make him perform oral for her whenever she wants and for as long as she wants. He gets intercourse once a month for a predetermined time limit.(if he behaves). She also is allowed to tease him and make him beg for intercourse. This is what he likes. He is not weak just likes a woman to take charge. Any woman like this type of man. Serious only pls

2007-12-20 06:02:48 · 9 answers · asked by MJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

about rings and & what him & his buddies are getting their girls for x-mas, are these signs that he's going to propose? He's been talking about marriage for the past few months. I haven't brought the topic up because it scares me, but he's always joking about what we'll have at our wedding, how big the ring is going to be and it feels like he's feeling me out to see what I feel about it. I don't really react to his jokes very much, I respond but kind of to the point where he would keep dropping more hints because he wasn't satisfied with the deadend answer. If a man wanted to propose, are these the types of things they would say before popping the big question? Also, are they more likely to do it around x-mas?

2007-12-20 06:01:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce