This is a follow-up to my past question a few days ago. I mentioned that for a very long time now this has been going on. When i get up in the morning and get into the shower, i can here my wife get up and go down the stairs to log onto her work computer. I know she works from home in the morning but i find it hard to beleive that she starts at 4:30-5:00 AM but she says she is just logging on..... FOR 15-20 minutes i ask her ?? I know hse is reading personal E-mails because if i sneek down stairs she will click off the screen and lock thecomputer out and get in the shower then. Also. what is also strange, if i try to iniceate sex with her, she gets defensive and gets all tence i see she is not into it , like a duty or obligation. Than maybe the next day or two, if she comes to me for sex and i turn her down or just say i am not interested, she gets upset like she is loosing the control over me. I think my wife likes to be in control over me with sex. she seems to be very controlling.
2007-12-20 06:15:15 · 5 answers · asked by danomanfishing 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would be suspicious sometime when she isnt home check the history on the computer. I think that you should talk to her about it. Let her know your feelings. She could alsojustbe shopping for your christmas gift online and doesnt want you to know so i would say that you should just talk to her and cut the tension out.
2007-12-20 06:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must end that relationship and yes she is cheating and it's not on the computer it's closer to home than you think if she acts defensive about sex that probably means she already had some for the day and you denying her makes her think you really know what she is doing so she goes crazy Right move on sorry it got to that point after marriage but it happens let her go and she will beg to come back just leave it be. next she will want a threesome or she will want extra freaky sex by then it's really to late.
2007-12-20 14:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by jerzyson29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
or, u r totally misreading the situation, and she thinks u r putting your nose in her personal emails with friends at work, and thinks you are jealous, and ok yeah, you turn down her for sex? dude, if you are wrong and shes NOT cheating on you,,u r on your way out the door! fly right or get left behind because jealous men like u r a dime a dozen and thats exactly how u will look to all her friends whether u r innocent or not...leave her alone and ignore what shes doing online every morning and put out when she wants u 2 and then see if things warm up..honestly it may already be too late for you.
2007-12-20 14:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first can you answer a question for me what is the definition for cheating cause i dont see the possibility for a woman to cheat online if their meeting in person now then that would be a whole new bag of worms ......... honestly why dont you jus play it kool watch her moves and then act
and have you ever thought that maybe its not emails and jus plain old porn
and if she controlling as you say and you dislike it leave her. you have at least that much freedom or power right
2007-12-20 14:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by drea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I read your other question and like I said before she definitely has something going on.
2007-12-20 14:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋