I've been dating this girl for about a month and she is really starting to piss me off. Im this close to just calling the whole thing off. First of all shes 21 and still lives with her parents. I on the other hand have my own APT. So she is constantly over here. She tells me what I can and can not eat now. She cleans my room so I have no idea where anything is. She doesnt want me to hang out with some of my closes friends because she says their to immature. Hmmm lets see what else o yea she yells at me everytime I play Halo 3. I almost feel like telling her to shut the hell up and go back to her parents house. Jesus cant she leave me alone for 1 fricken day!? I need help here. Is there a way I could deal with this or should I just break it off now?
2007-12-20 06:07:16 · 6 answers · asked by Mr. Martini 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not every girl out there is a complete control freak, just the girl you're dating right now. I wouldn't let anyone after only being with me for one month feel like they could control me, and you shouldn't no matter how long you've been with the person. Unless the person is noticing unhealthy habits that you are doing and is trying to help you, I wouldn't let anyone tell me what to do especially as an adult.
Drop her back at her parents house, play a little Halo 3 then go out and look for a girl you can be yourself around.
Good luck. ;]
2007-12-20 06:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by Vanity Affaire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd break it off. sounds like you don't even like the girl anymore. Not every girl tries to change her man; some of us are smart enough to know that's impossible. Compromises do have to be made though. You can exactly expect her to like it if you are going to play Halo 3 for hours on end while she is around. It's kind of rude. I let my husband play video games a lot, but he knows he has a limit. Tell her to stop cleaning, and that you'll eat whatever you want. If she doesn't like it, then oh well.
2007-12-20 06:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by Dolyn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what dont you be a man and jus confront her let her know what you dislike and would rather she not do in your place after all your the man in the relationship so act like one...
as for her tidying your place i think if you had jus kept it tidy your self she wouldnt feel the need to go and rearrange everything ..... and there one of your problems would be solved already...... so make compromises and talk dont think to yourself cause that way we'll never know and partly were are here to please you guys
2007-12-20 06:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by drea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to lay it out for her, she honestly cannot tell you what to do in your own home. She's not your wife make sure she understands that.
2007-12-20 06:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by klatrice07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Martini, Well two things, break up with her and grow up !
2007-12-20 06:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are truly unhappy with her then you can break it off. i think shes the one trying to control your life. set her straight NOW.
2007-12-20 06:13:04 · answer #6 · answered by JackieJaguar08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋