We broke up two weeks ago, i like a second chance with her. Partially it was my fault . i know my faults and have confessed to her that im sorry and for her to forgive me, she said no. She seems to be still mad at me. I still love her. what should i do to make things better for us. She wants to be friends right now.
2007-12-20 06:11:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Send her a nice spray of flowers with a note telling her of your love and ask her to call you for a date. If she responds you've a chance, if not check out other girls.
2007-12-20 06:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by sparks 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to be friends then do that. If you love her I would assume you would rather have her as a friend than not in your life at all. She doesn't trust you right now because of what ever you did and that will take time for her to get over. You now need to be her friend and do whatever you can to built that trust back up if you want a second chance. It isn't a guarantee, but the best thing to do if you want her back.
2007-12-20 06:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by piphop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time. Let her sort out whatever it is that she needs to sort out. Don't call her but answer her calls when she calls you. Be very "to the point" when she calls. Don't bring up the fact that you want her back, don't ask her what you can do to fix it, just leave it alone. If she brings it up just tell her you are sorry and that she deserves better. That's it. Maybe she will get over her hurt feelings and want to work it out, maybe not... Trying to "win her back" is only gonna irritate her, and make her feel like she made the right decision.
2007-12-20 06:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by Adee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must pick yourself up and go out and find someone new. Whose fault it is doesn't matter anymore. The relationship is over and you must start anew. Its fine to be friends but often that never happens.Love often comes and goes like the seasons. Spring is a time for new love and summer we have our relationships, When fall hits we marry and winter we settle. Then its spring again and life starts again.
Always look forward to the future and do things in a positive way. Let her go and spread your wings.
2007-12-20 06:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by harrypotterisgreat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is a hard situation because if she wants to move on you might not have a good chance. but for the time being try to say your feelings and thoughts, try to really confess and say im really sorry about everything you had to deal with me and show that you will fix your mistakes. if she wont say yes just let it go. you will find another girl soon just keep your hopes up
2007-12-20 06:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard for me to answer this one because you did not give enough info about what caused you and your ex to break up because you may have done something that was very hurtful to her if you want her back it is going to be up to you to get her back I'm going to leave this one alone need more info on what you did Sorry!
2007-12-20 06:18:42 · answer #6 · answered by heavenlli_61 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to figure out if you still love her or you simply feel guilty and want to remove that awful feeling....
But if you think is love, be very patient, she deserves it!
Tell her that you dont care how much time it will take to her to decide, you will remain there....
Send her a flower every day, little notes on her locker, come on it is your chance to be romantic!! and conquer her again!!
BEST OF LUCK!
2007-12-20 06:19:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be friends, and try to repair the damage. Talk to her about how you feel, and if she still doesn't want to get back together, let go. You cannot MAKE her love you again, unfortunately. Good luck!
2007-12-20 06:14:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try to let her cool down then confess your love to her and tell her about how much of an idiot you were for breaking up with her (if you broke up wit her) and tell her how sorry you were and ask her out. if she says no then im sorry but youll have to move on.
2007-12-20 06:15:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you seriously hurt her or messed up she wont forgive you right away. most girls never will but the few that do don't know whats going to happen. give her her space for now. if you keep bothering her she will not want you back.
2007-12-20 06:14:33 · answer #10 · answered by JackieJaguar08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋