Family & Relationships - 20 December 2007

Im a girl who cannot understand this guy I met recently in my job. We've often flirted before and had a connection..he even told me he was falling for me one day when we chatted, he seems really normal, has lots of friend..then one day you know kisses etc but not sex (he tried, but Im the type that waits a bit) . Seems like the usual start of something but he cancelled an invite he had given me for the next day!! I contacted him by & we chatted & I suggested we meet up. He got back to a few days later & its too late as I had left to go back home (live in a diff city to him). then he contacted me on and off but we never talk about our feelings, still we get on great. now he is calling me to say he will fly to see me on his next vacn and I hear feelings in his voice. WHAT'S GOING ON IN THIS MAN'S HEAD? Is he a bit unstable? It seems strange to me. We have mutual friends and they really like him. Did he feel rejected when I didnt move as quickly as him physically?

2007-12-20 05:28:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am only in the mood when he is not home and I really want sex with him but when the time is right he is finally home, I have 10 other things on my mind and sex is the last thing I want to do and I have no interest anymore/

2007-12-20 05:27:35 · 12 answers · asked by J & R Sequin 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-20 05:25:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was updating my eHarmony profile and was looking at profiles. well lo and behold...THERE WAS MY CHEATING LOW LIFE HUSBAND!! he actually has a profile on there! i am so upset...what nerve of him. i thought of making a fake profile and answering his and then bust him! what should i do????

2007-12-20 05:24:49 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok we have been dating for 16 months already yet we haven't had sex before,so I'm feeling the real itch for our first times. But somehow he just does not seem interested in sex,and I'm getting really annoyed by his indifferent attitude towards it. Should I just jump onto him and rape him forcingly and let him understand the real pleasure of sex? I'm just tired of facing a piece of stoic wood!

2007-12-20 05:23:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I might tie the knot next year so I need some suggestions on themes. If you can tell me what your theme was and what cool things you decorated with, that will be awesome

2007-12-20 05:23:37 · 22 answers · asked by xoxMeaghanoxo 4 in Weddings

We broke up two weeks ago, i like a second chance with her. Partially it was my fault . i know my faults and have confessed to her that im sorry and for her to forgive me, she said no. She seems to be still mad at me. I still love her. what should i do to make things better for us. She wants to be friends right now.

2007-12-20 05:23:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in england studying for a law degree. When I first came here my parents were together and working so they could support me. Unfortunately, my whole world fell apart in 2006. mom and my step dad divorced and lost their business..so mom and i are broke. I have been trying to get a job for a really long time but to no avail.
I told my aunt of the situation and she said I could move in with her. I happily did. When I moved in however I noticed this attitude from her. She would hardly, if ever, talk to me. They have 2 sons and 3 bedrooms but they put me in the dining room (made up a bed there etc). I accepted it because I coulnt do any better. I gave her 50 pounds the first month but couldnt afford anymore. Now, 4 months later, she wants me to move out. She and her husband told my mom that it isnt convenient to have me there anymore, because access to their dining room is not as easy. I have nowhere to go and she knows this. My mom cant stop crying im looking for a job. please, help!

2007-12-20 05:22:38 · 12 answers · asked by guccicandy31 2 in Family

2007-12-20 05:21:20 · 22 answers · asked by clair2285 1 in Weddings

My momther in laws father passed and her sons just got arrested. Shes crying and i dont know what to say tp people in times like these. I know im sorry is one thing to say but what else should i say?

2007-12-20 05:18:34 · 7 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Family

2007-12-20 05:16:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My Fiance' is a good man & I love him. He was married for 20 years & had 4 children with his ex wife. He was a Jehovah Witness & raised his kids in that religion. He has since left that religion because of the fanatical views they have. When he left the religion he also left his wife because she was "brainwashing" the kids into thinking their Dad was a terrible person because he was no longer in "the truth". Right before I started dating him, my fiance' lived in an old rusted out trailer by himself, got addicted to porn, was up in the Karaoke Bars every single night, his kids did not want to see him because "Mom says Dad is bad". He started talking to women online & trying to "hookup" with Women for sex (but says he never went through with it). Then he met me at a Karaoke Party. He has since stopped watching the porn. He only goes to the bar twice a week (usually with me). And 2 of his kids are talking to him again. Is my fiance' okay? Or should I be concerned & rethink marrying him?

2007-12-20 05:14:51 · 12 answers · asked by VintagePort 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend seems to be ignoring me.

2007-12-20 05:14:05 · 6 answers · asked by nikitakelala6 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm attractive and plenty of men look at me, but hardly any ever actually approach me when I'm out..I don't know why, I don't think I seem unfriendly or anything. Men can you help?

2007-12-20 05:13:52 · 29 answers · asked by rachel 2 in Singles & Dating

be turned on, laugh or be mad?

Do you think this will help encourage her to wear more lingerie?

2007-12-20 05:13:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-20 05:13:30 · 5 answers · asked by Steve C 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-20 05:11:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'am getting really tired of guys applauding each other when they hook up with women. When we do it, we are called everyname in the book. I would like to know why guys make it okay for them and for us it's not okay. Or like, it's okay for a guy to have two or three women on the side, but if we were to do something like that, in a way it wouldn't be allowed.

2007-12-20 05:08:00 · 6 answers · asked by Kitty 1 in Singles & Dating

some one and cant tell them because you dont know what they would say to you or tell you that you are crazy????

2007-12-20 05:05:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live in the state of Florida and I am curious about how legal documents stand in the courts and which is stronger than the next. My parents have a prenuptial agreement and now my step father is trying to write in his Will that he wants the Prenuptial agreement to be null and void. Can he do this without my mother's agreement? Is a prenuptial agreement stronger than a will or not? In the prenup it states that after 5 years, in the case of death, my mother is entitled to everything and now he wants his will to make it null and void and give her nothing, (they have been married over 5 years now) can he do this? I'm trying to do some pre-investigation for my mom before hiring a lawyer and anyone who knows the laws in Florida could be a great help. Can a man screw a women behind her back and leave her with nothing?

2007-12-20 05:05:39 · 5 answers · asked by SROCK 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A few nights ago a guy friend who happens to like me (we go on dates) picked me up from my parents house who Im staying with for 2 months. Just to go out to a show at a bar. My dad was the only one home and said he didnt care if he met him or not. So I just went out when the guy got there. 2 days later my step mother brings up how there is something wierd about a guy (boyfriend or not) not picking you up at the door. I said theres nothing wierd about it, we just disagree. She didnt want to let it go, and kept going. Then my dad chimed in. I turned and said I really didnt want to talk about it. And he started screaming at me. Im secretive, I think the world revolves around me or that everyone must want to know my business, that Im hiding something. Im 25 y/o, have a great job, make my own money, have lived on my own for 6 years. WTF. I know my parents like to gossip, but all the yelling to try and force personal info out of me? Is this normal? I would understand if I were a teenager.??

2007-12-20 05:03:52 · 4 answers · asked by Beany4270 1 in Family

I started dating this guy a month ago and just last week I asked him what he was getting his parents for Christmas and he told me that his mom and dad had died.

I invited him to Christmas with my family and I was just wondering what kind of special things I could do for him this Christmas so that he won't be so sad.....you know.....little things to brighten his holiday....also I'm not even real sure about an appropriate gift for him.....so lost....

Any suggestions would be much appreciated!!! Thanks : ) and Happy Holidays!!!

2007-12-20 05:01:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-20 04:59:09 · 19 answers · asked by Ken 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If your b/f or husband watchs PORN once in a while, what is wrong with that? It's not like he is doing "it" with someone else.

I have no trouble watching with my husband and I see nothing wrong with him watching it alone. I feel lucky to be able to have such an open relationship. I am just shocked that there are so many woman (or girls) out there that won't even let there men look at a girl mag.

2007-12-20 04:58:36 · 36 answers · asked by queenbee 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-20 04:58:29 · 6 answers · asked by AFRO-MAN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-20 04:58:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy who juss recently got dumped by his gf of 6 years relationship. Although he showed interest in me but it seems he likes his ex gf more and they still talk on the phone and see each other.....he claim that there is nothing between them but why do they still keep in touch? Should i still pursue with this relationship or forget about him? Should i let him take me as a rebound?

2007-12-20 04:58:02 · 21 answers · asked by kk 2 in Singles & Dating

something nice that would make her blush lol plzz

2007-12-20 04:57:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-20 04:56:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

recently my grandmother died and everyone at home seems so gloomy. the thing is its her house that we always celebrate each holiday at. now she isn't there, (she was the only reason we came together as a family)everybody is acting stupid and only thinking about thier inhertiance. Help?

2007-12-20 04:53:45 · 3 answers · asked by ezekiel's mom 4 in Family