2007-12-20 04:59:09 · 19 answers · asked by Ken 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
and is also seeing someone else
2007-12-20 06:04:56 · update #1
she wants to go with someone else but not while shes with you so she wants to seperate so you dont have notting to say be cause you where seperated
2007-12-20 05:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he does not like the terms of divorce! In other words, he wants his freedom to screw around but does not want to pay child support, spousal support or alimony. He does not want to lose half the bank account, the house and anything else he would OWE you if he divorced. He is so dam selfish that the will even refuse you a life to find true love by keeping you in this status.. Never mind what this loser wants! Get a lawyer and divorce his butt and make sure you take EVERYTHING your entitled to. When this loser see you doing this, he will scream like a wounded skunk. Pay no attention to him and DO NOT make any type of out of court Settlement with this scum sucking trailer trash. He can be served at his work place for under $100 bucks and when you do, Do not take a step backwards. I have already warned you what he will try to do to stop the divorce. Get support from your family and kick him out of the house. Your lawyer will help you in this.. Good luck and remember you deserve a better life than what this penis brain is offering you... Good luck!
2016-03-16 04:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in my experience it means taht more then likely she wants a divorce, but doesn't want to really hurt you, so she's asking for a seperation until you two get use to the idea of not being together and then probably hoping you will get tired of waiting on her and just file or for you to get into a big fight and then she will file. You need to talk to her and ask her if she really just needs sometime to herself, or if she would rather bypass the whole cop-out seperation and just file. But if it's that she needs time, then honestly, give her space and time to herself to do her soul searching to figure out what it is that she is looking for, otherwise you could push her further away. Good luck!
2007-12-20 05:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by nalerij 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To keep the option open to come back. If she divorces you then its final but if she separates from you and has a good time living it up as a single woman and then decides its time to come home it will be easier to get you to agree.
2007-12-20 05:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by memyslf&I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I called my wife after work and she told me to go home. I asked where she was and she said at the grocery store and I needed to go home. I went home and she had moved out with my son. Talk about being crushed. She left a letter detailing her feelings. I could sit here and try to justify everything but point blank she was unhappy. Whether it was with me over the years with bad habits and not completely changing or her not knowing what she wants or envision where she will be, the fact is she left. I am heartbroken and trying to understand this. She stated she loves me and does not want a divorce. She needs time to figure herself
out and reconnect with me. Basically fall in love again. I love and respect her unconditionally.
I have never abused her physically, sexually, or mentally. I supported her and her mom unconditionally.
She and my son are the reason I am the man I am today.
I will try to adhere to the advice given and respect her wishes/desire to try and cultivate the love needed to save this relationship.
2014-12-29 12:16:14 · answer #5 · answered by larry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she wants a divorce but not all in one shot. First she wants to see how difficult it is living without you and/or how difficult it is for you to live without her. It's not a good thing, and it won't bring you closer, that's for certain! Unless of course you can change everything about yourself overnight and become everything and anything she wants.
2007-12-20 05:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by Marina 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for God sake ask her only she knws what she wants
she could mean that she will string you alone until she find someone better and than she will ask for a divorce
What you need to do is to think abotu what you want and see i you want the same thing
but otherwise what she said is what she means
2007-12-20 05:14:16 · answer #7 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means that you guys are having some issues in your relationship. She is saying that she wants you two to take some time apart to reflect on your relationship and what it really means so that you can hopefully work through it.
2007-12-20 05:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means she wants a divorce but has to check out her options first!
2007-12-20 05:03:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I feel as though she may just need some space to find herself. She probably loves being married to you but she may have somethings she needs to work out amongst herself andshe needs to be alone to do so, and she doesn't know how do while being wth you daily.
2007-12-20 05:14:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple she wants a trial divorce (seperation) from you to see if a real divorce is what she really wants
2007-12-20 05:04:48 · answer #11 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋