i was updating my eHarmony profile and was looking at profiles. well lo and behold...THERE WAS MY CHEATING LOW LIFE HUSBAND!! he actually has a profile on there! i am so upset...what nerve of him. i thought of making a fake profile and answering his and then bust him! what should i do????
2007-12-20 05:24:49 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Was he your perfect match!! If so I would stay together doesn't eHarmony match on 20-something points of compatability or something like that I heard on the annoying commercials
2007-12-20 05:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by ennayerac 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You were updating your eharmoney profile? Doesnt that mean you were doing the same as he? Did you ever think that maybe he busted you first and has been keeping tabs on your profile. Ahhh the games that ppl play ... no dont make a fake profile ... confront him show him the profile and ask him what he was doing on eharmony and he might ask the same of you. Be an adult about the whole thing.
2007-12-20 05:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by memyslf&I 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am just wondering, were you really updating your eHarmony profile or did you already suspect that he was back on it. If you were updating it then i believe that your marriage wont last. It seems like you are looking for someone else already. but if you went on to find him then i can understand. I would probably reply to him, be flirtatious and then when you meet let him have it. But you never know you may fall in love all over again. so just be careful of what you decide. Best of luck.
2007-12-20 05:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by yonahdreams 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Considering you have a profile on there yourself, No you shouldn't be mad. As far as making a fake profile to mess with him, I wouldn't suggest that. I tried that with my husband, it wasn't on a dating site though, just a myspace like site. I stoled someones pictures out of thier profile, posted a few, made her live about 20 miles from us and even had her speak spanish (he knows spanish). Found this great translation site and sent him a message. Of course he took the bait. On his profile, there are pictures of us together and I had her saying not nice things about me to make it seem more real. He never defended me, instead he told her how beautiful she was and that he wanted to F@#! her. This went on for a week and finally I couldn't take it anymore and I confronted him. It wasn't pretty. You're setting yourself up for disaster if you make a fake profile and if you do, I hope you are prepared for the heartache it's going to cause you if he falls for it. My suggestion to you is to delete your profile since you are married now, and tell him that you deleted it and ask him to delete his too. Maybe it was something he did before he met you and just spaced it off since he had no need for going into it anymore.
2007-12-20 06:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by perfectiest 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Surely you jest? You want a mature answer to this immature question?
It's okay for you to have a profile there, but not him? You know the old saying, "What goes around comes around"? It just came around sweetie and it's now biting you in the butt.
I'm sorry, I don't see a problem here. You obviously deserve each other.
Party on....
2007-12-20 06:14:53 · answer #5 · answered by Barbi T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you should make a fake profile and then contact him. Make yourself sound attractive and make him want you. Answer all his emails with a speedy reply, be flirtatious. He will end up having an online affair with his own wife. Then when you set a meeting to "meet" in public at a local starbucks or something, say you will wear a red sweater and when he finally sees it's you, his wife, then wait for his reaction.
This is hilarious!
don't get divorced yet, try this method.
2007-12-20 05:37:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Honey sometimes you have to understand that maybe he is just on there because he is bored. You know I recently read my fiance myspace page and I accused him of cheating but I later realized that he wasn't and that the only reason he uses it is because sometimes hearing things from other people makes him feel good and at the same time if you don't know if he is meeting these people don't overreact because it may hurt you in the end. Prove that he is cheating before you take any drastic measures okay.
2007-12-20 06:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
For someone who wants mature answers, you don't act so mature. Your "scum husband" and your own eharmony profile aren't consistent with that of a mature married woman.
2007-12-20 05:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by Erin B 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get real, you are going to get all bitchy about him having a profile on there and the first thing you mentioned was that you were updating yours. Chances are if you seen his profile he has seen yours. Did he go crazy on you? Do us all a favor and get over yourself. If it's ok for you to cheat then it should be ok for him. What a joke.
2007-12-20 05:56:13 · answer #9 · answered by Jim C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would do just that answer his profile! If he wants to meet you meet him somewhere and then kick him out
my ex did a simular thing three times over 13 years of marriage I finally left him don't make the same mistake I did
2007-12-20 05:36:03 · answer #10 · answered by sarah 19651939 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋