Ok we have been dating for 16 months already yet we haven't had sex before,so I'm feeling the real itch for our first times. But somehow he just does not seem interested in sex,and I'm getting really annoyed by his indifferent attitude towards it. Should I just jump onto him and rape him forcingly and let him understand the real pleasure of sex? I'm just tired of facing a piece of stoic wood!
2007-12-20 05:23:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OOMG... Forget him... he doesnt deserve to be raped.. Rape me I deserve it.. lol
2007-12-20 05:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by Johnny Pumps 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hmm sounds a bit interesting. So you guys have been together for over 16 months and there have not been any sexual intercourse between the two, that's quite unheard of. Maybe you should try to talk to him about how he feel about sex. He might has some internal problem that keeps him from enjoying you. Raping would be extreme unless you think that's really going to turn him on. Try to communicate with him how you feel, I believe that the communication should be good since you guys been together for over 16 monthes. Start of slow...wear something sexy for him, and than a little of foreplay and than go for it! People don't like to admit it, but sex is a big part in a relationship. hopefully I helped, and hopefully your sex life gets better.
2007-12-20 05:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, I feel you. It's not that all you want is sex, but you want the sexual attention, to let you know you are a women and you are still attractive to him, right?
Well, as a guy, I'll give you a couple of answers.
1. Maybe he's not ready.
2. I'm not acusing him of anything but, he could be having sex with other girls and cheating on you.
3. Maybe he thinks he is (SMALL) in da (Dirty South), and if he doesn't (PLEASE) you, you'd leave him.
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Aside from that, have you even came straight out and said,
"Hey, Why won't you have sex with me?"
See what he says.
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Whenever my spouse and I have a problem, I try to get them to talk...(Throw this at him). "If we don't talk about this, it might not seem something big now, but, in the future it could be the end of our relationship"
2007-12-20 05:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by Nitsua 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um nice question I just talked about this with my cousin Sharai who's getting frustrated with her Bf Toby because he doesn't want sex and there both have they V-card.. I said maybe he beliefs in abstinence or hes on the flip side ..The best thing to do is find some other guy who has a torched that Burns wildly in wanting to have sex and lose his V-card. **** hell wish i new ya or meet ya **** I wouldn't be no punk *** wimp about having sex **** I'm still got my V-card but i want to have sex real bad in Plus I'm good at knowing how to do the position's
2007-12-21 08:51:49 · answer #4 · answered by Sekhmet the black mage juggalo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um? Have you ever tried to push a limp noodle across a plate before? Your boyfriend has just as much of a right to want to wait as anyone else. Talk to him about this but don't force yourself on him - it's just embarassing.
2007-12-20 05:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by Leaf 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOOO what kinda question is that, how would you like it if a guy raped you saying, oh, well, she will like it later, maybe he has some intergrity and dosent want to give up his virginity to the first girl that comes along, maybe your not the right one.
2007-12-20 05:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Rape means its unwilling. Which is very rare among men, especially if he's interested enough to date you. So, I say go for it, but on the small chance that he doesn't want to go that far, you should listen to him, and respond if he expresses that he's uncomfortable.
2007-12-20 05:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by boyeatsguitar 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ask him why he doesn't want sex, if he is insecure then yeah, do it. make him feel secure, that's really sexy, women taking the lead. If it is something else like really personal respect his decision, if sex is that important to you, more than love then find another boyfriend.
2007-12-20 05:30:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Does jail sound fun for you?
Damn. Is he your boyfriend or is he a piece of meat? Grow up and stop looking at him like he's nothing more than a piece of meat in the butcher shop.
2007-12-20 05:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
OK that is crazy why would you want to lose him respect him for his decision and just wait
2007-12-20 05:27:36 · answer #10 · answered by Chloe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
GOOO FOR IT!!!!! i would have dumped a boyfriend if he didnt screww me right away, the first hour we were together
2007-12-20 05:44:08 · answer #11 · answered by cheesy tortilla 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋