We broke up two weeks ago, i like a second chance with her. Partially it was my fault . i know my faults and have confessed to her that im sorry and for her to forgive me, she said no. She seems to be still mad at me. I still love her. what should i do to make things better for us. She wants to be friends right now.
2007-12-20 05:23:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she said no, thats all. maybe you did a very big mistake in your relationship thats why she could say no. but if you really want her back, do everything. you may also beg for her forgiveness and i wish you luck
2007-12-20 05:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by Cheonsa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is a start in the a good direction. if she was finished with you there would not even be a friendship. Just give her some time. But stay in touch, do little things like call to see how she is doing; maybe invite her to out to eat and also let her know that even though you are only friends you still care for her and if she ever needs to talk or any help with anything to call you. if it is God's will she will come back to you. i wish you the best.
2007-12-20 05:29:24 · answer #2 · answered by Leana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a boyfriend that I broke up with about a year ago. It still gets me sometimes when I see him with his new girl. My suggestion is that I would ask her why but don't bug her about it because that will make her hate you more. It is most likely that she still has feelings for you but because of what you did she hates you. I wouldn't give her any pressure. My ex and I now are friends and we get along great. It all usually works out in the end even if you don't get back together.
Good Luck!
2007-12-20 05:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by am6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she must be acquaintances then try this. in case you adore her i might want to assume you would possibly want to fairly have her as a chum than no longer on your life in any respect. She would not believe you immediately because of what ever you probably did and which will take time for her to get over. you presently prefer to be her chum and do regardless of the actuality that you'll to equipped that believe lower back up in case you desire a 2d chance. it isn't a assure, even if the proper element to do in case you want her lower back.
2016-10-19 21:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok the best thing to do is find a situation where you don't care how big of a fool you make of yourself just to let her know that you love her. (catching my drift) you want to let her know that you would do something at a great length to let her know how much you care about her. even if it means embarrasing yourself. without coming across as a loon or stalker. if she still has any feelings at all for you after you make a total fool of yourself for just her she will think it is sweet. i would suggest a poem and read it in front of a group of people to her. if you can sing there is a good one. another good idea is buy her a gift and just say this gift is to say thanks for being a part of my life if only for a little while.
2007-12-20 05:34:08 · answer #5 · answered by davimich1975 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you do? that may be the reason why. If you cheated on her, be a man and move on. If not, work on what ever it is that she does not approve of and show her you will make the changes needed to save the marriage. I wish you the best either way, GOD bless.
2007-12-20 05:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by schneider2294@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's meant to be it will...just give her time and she might take you back. explain to her that it was your fault and that you are TRULY sorry. tell her you still love her even if she doesn't love you back. ask her why she wont take you back...if she can't come up with anything she most likely does want to get back with, but she doesn't want to make it obvious and she wants to see how much you DO care and how long you will keep trying to get her back. good luck :]
2007-12-20 06:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by kendra (: 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably best for you to give her space, and being friends is the best thing no matter what! Married people should be best friends, so it is a good step forward to be friends with each other.
2007-12-20 05:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by olivemai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally when forgiveness is denied by the injured party it's over.
2007-12-20 05:26:56 · answer #9 · answered by Steven D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her wishes. You obviously did something that made her break up with you. At least you can be friends and this gives you some ray of hope.
2007-12-20 05:27:57 · answer #10 · answered by sensible_man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋