like actually having sex or anything physical? On your wife. thank you.
2007-12-20 06:17:07 · 12 answers · asked by mommy to be of 3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thank you all, I didn't think I needed to worry about it but wanted to make sure, I love my husband dearly and was just worried that maybe oh I don't know. I am 9 months pregnant so I worry about everything, sometimes I think I overmanage everything lol. thanks again!!! You all have made me feel alot better, it is just that christians are always saying it does and I wondered if they were right.
2007-12-20 06:32:32 · update #1
I watch & enjoy as much pornography as the next guy (maybe even the next two or three guys put together) but it has never lead me to cheat on my wife or any girlfriend I've ever had.
In my opinion pornography doesn't make a person cheat; lack of loyalty and commitment to one's relationship makes a person cheat.
Some of us are loyal no matter what, and I've never met a woman who was worth risking my marriage for.
2007-12-20 06:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by That's a Stupid Question 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Never. Not sure how that would happen. I think if you tried you would get a paper cut if not worse.
Porn is a diversion. Its a visual image of what we like. Not a sign of cheating. After all if a guy was having an affair, he would have a different woman, not a video representation of another woman.
2007-12-20 14:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by chinamigarden 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most men look at porn, and most men do not cheat. Of those that do cheat it is not porn that leads to the cheating. Usually men cheat because they are insecure with themselves or with their relationship. If you are having problems with your husband looking at porn, talk to him about it, maybe look at counseling if it is really a problem. Or look at it with him and share the fantasy. Good luck!
2007-12-20 14:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Statistically it rarely does and there are other factors when cheating occurs. Viewing porn is normal, especially for males, and is mostly curiosity and the arousal effect. It isn't to far from masturbation... albeit mental masturbation. Many men and some women masturbate, even inside of marriage. Although the wives find that insulting, it doesn't lead to cheating either. But when it becomes an obsession, as can happen, then it becomes an issue, to be treated like any other obsession... to much time on the web, games, drinking, etc.
2007-12-20 14:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 4⤋
um never.
the only thing that would make me cheat are the following ingredients taken concurrently:
- I'm PO'ed at wife (and its NOT MY FAULT!)
- 3 Beers with 1 Shot
- A sexy milf drinking with me begins kissing my neck and squeezing my thigh
Sorry, Porn won't do make a man cheat but everyone has a weakness if they let it be discovered.
2007-12-20 14:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by scott_v1963 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. What does one have to do with the other? There's no relation between porn and cheating that I can understand, they're as different as night and day.
2007-12-20 14:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
None with me. I like to consider myself a porn afficianado too, but never has it ever pushed me to cheat on my wife. Instead it has given me some great ideas of things to do with my wife, but never cheat.
2007-12-20 14:36:27 · answer #7 · answered by No one 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
None,I adore porn & my partner does too not only do we find it pleasurable to watch but even more fun to act out in role play
2007-12-20 14:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as they keep the fantasy a fantasy everything is fine. I can't think of anyone I know that cheats related to how much porn they have... if anything you think it'd cut the chances of a person cheating.
2007-12-20 14:22:38 · answer #9 · answered by K.S. THiS 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
None, Its not like the girls I'm looking at in a magazine or video are going to knock on my door asking for some.
2007-12-20 14:23:46 · answer #10 · answered by mburleigh8 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋