Why do married men cheat?
I mean what's the problem @ home?
2007-12-20 05:34:30 · 27 answers · asked by twdy412 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not all men cheat, u know, and if they do they're no longer men they're 'dogs'!! No problem at home, they have a problem with themselves and they're just looking for trouble!
2007-12-20 05:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by acia 4 · 6⤊ 2⤋
well i personally have never and will never cheat but a lot of men do. being honest with you the reason men cheat has nothing to do with you at all. being a man i know why men cheat. its because we enjoy that first time sex feeling. sex needs to always feel new and energized when that feeling is gone men look for ways to get that feeling back. best advise i can give is every so often add something new to spice up the relationship, like a new position, a different room in the house, sexy lingerie, or even if you can get by with it sex outdoors. also every so often leave a sexual note arround the house or a really hot and steamy email. honestly id reccomend this maybe once every few weeks at least. so he gets to think about you in the meantime. one more thing ive heard on tv before is if you are really comfortable with each other and have been together for a while. go out to a club or bar one night. you enter the club first all dressed up really sexy, have him wait maybe an hour then he walk in and you pretend to meet again for the first time. the great part about this is you know they are going home with you its a win win situation and you may get some free drinks from other men while your waiting for him. when sex begins to feel like a repetition rather than fun and erotic the sex isnt as good at least i think most men would agree with this. just keep doing things on a monthly basis to make it feel new all over again. you'll be surprised at some of the fun things you'll be doing. i'm telling you that is what us men crave
2007-12-20 05:51:56 · answer #2 · answered by davimich1975 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men seem to think that once they get married nothing changes but to stand before God and Loved ones and to profess your love to a person should stand for something more than a piece of paper an title of being married to some one it is a commitment we make and should honer.
To go astray and seek the comfort of another is no more than cheating and once this begins the marriage is over don't stand there baby walk away .
2007-12-20 05:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
some married men, and also some married women...
most of the time, it probably is not a problem at home, but, an issue... some lame, dumb, issue, or "lame reason"... which is just an excuse... to blame it on the other party... an excuse to not feel guilt... and excuse to make them feel that it's ok in their case to cheat... and also probably an exaggerated excuse... ugh...
I knew a guy who cheated on his wife because he said she was a pig... said she left a blanket on the floor for a week... my answer to that was, "why didn't you pick it up???"...
lame, lame, lame...
some had bad examples (cheating father, mother)... or some other cheater in their family... (still lame, everyone has a conscience)
many, many, reasons, but, still, the truth is, the excuses are lame, lame, lame...
I know a lady who cheated on her husband (this was not the first cheating instance, there were many before this) because he yelled at her to get off of the computer while she was chatting to some man in another country even, to help pack his suitcase for a business trip... if I was her husband, I'd yell at her too... lame lame lame... he was about to leave for his trip and all she wanted to do was chat to some other man... lame...
2007-12-20 05:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you'd done a question search, you'd see this has been asked a zillion times...and your question should've been "Why do SOME married men cheat?" because there are plenty who do not.
People cheat for various reasons...opportunity, the need for their ego to be fed, lack of satisfying sex at home, the thrill of doing something 'naughty' or wrong, and the list could go on...what it boils down to though is selfishness.
People who cheat are selfish and consider their wants to be of a higher priority than the feelings or committment they made to their partner.
2007-12-20 05:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
men cheat for the same reason women do. Sex gets boring or there is no sex, and the connection level on a emotional level becomes extinct. Everything becomes routine, get up go to work, come home eat dinner, get in bed have a quickie and off to sleep,, same old same old, It is like eating M&M's, a person can only eat so many green ones before they crack and say I want a red one now.
2007-12-20 06:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by john d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They cheat because they can, and that doesn't necessarily mean there's anything wrong at home.
Some men just can't keep their zippers zipped.
Have a good day.
2007-12-20 05:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by Barbi T 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The women forget there needs, and completly just act as if were there 4 the pay-check. Men are basic Need support-love-food and good lovin. Ladies(not all) of the era from late 60's to late late 90's were lead to belive that men were all pigs and we all thought they were lower than we were. In which is so far from the truth, if your so lucky to hog tie A true man, and if the Man is so lucky to catch him a "lady" all is well....
2007-12-20 05:40:26 · answer #8 · answered by keithleyjustin 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girl, there are tons of reasons but none of them are right. A man nor a woman should ever cheat on their significant other, but especially if they're married. For one God doesn't like it and two it's just not right! I don't know why they do it, but i wish they didn't!
2007-12-20 05:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by meagan k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the same reason some married woman do . maybe their husbands
or their wifes aren't that good in bed or also maybe they have mint some one else . there are so many reasons this happens to one or another. and again some of them do it for no reason at all.cheat on their wifes or she does it to the husband. eigher way it goes it's not right. but their the ones that have to live with their selfs for what ever they do.
2007-12-20 05:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋