My first gal was exactly wat i wanted in a lady, and i really loved her. all of it happened at high school. everything was just fine until a guy (my juniour) got involved. they were neigbour so she began giving him measages for me. i personally like the guy & i treated him nicely any time he came around.
but on that good day, she gave me measage she wasn't feeling too well. I said to tell her I'll be there the next day but fortunatelly i had a little spare time that day so rush down there only to find my so called juniour having sex with my girl friend.
I can tell you it wasn't easy, and ever since it has been so difficult to fall inlove until recently but it also turn ed out to be a bad idea.
is it just me or it that how women are if the know you really do love them??
2007-12-20 01:39:26 · 6 answers · asked by Saint West 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you knw wt.. this girl didnt deserve ur love. she cheated on u behind ur back. u r lucky tht u found out about her pretty soon. dont regret anything. she was a *****. u deserve some1 much better.
not all women r like her. u just need to meet d ryt person. gud luck,
2007-12-20 16:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by Senorita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just had two bad experience one after the other.
Allow time.
Read my article on the subject.
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General Advice to Young People
By
Minootoo
This is my general advice to all.
You sound very young and if you are under 25, then study hard if in school or college, stay and finish it. Or join a school or college, acquire higher education.
Avoid distraction while studying at home or at school, just concentrate on the thing that you do at the time you are doing.
Build a carrier, youth comes but once take full advantage of it. Study hard, play some enjoy friendship, and then at age 30 if still unattached then try the sites like.
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2007-12-20 09:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, If I know a man loves me and I feel the same way about him, I wouldn't want to hurt him or cause him any pain. I don't think any woman does, unless she is just a cold hearted person. Now, its a different story if you really loved this girl and she didn't love you. The way she went about it was wrong, if she didn't care she should have been woman enough to let you know that and let you go on with your life. Don't hold her faults against other women that you meet and could possibly start a good relationship with them.
2007-12-20 09:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know people you love shouldnt go and stab you in the back like that..and women can know if you love them if you tell him...maybe she had to fool around with the juniour because you guys exchanged messeges rather than talking to her yourself...and maybe she was lonely and the juniour helped her with that... im srorry that that had to happen to you...
2007-12-20 09:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by brunet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this, but unless you both love each other, it doesn't work out. Love is only a four letter word, and easy to say, but actions speak louder than words. So from now on watch actions, don't always listen to the words, they can be deceiving.
2007-12-20 09:56:37 · answer #5 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you and some others but not everyone
2007-12-20 09:44:37 · answer #6 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋