I am having a bit of a breakdown. She has been good to me for a few years now. We have no kids thru choice and we enjoy our home together.
Recently during our loving sessions she has become more frisky. different outfits and stuff like that. I smiled and accepted as I appreciated the change from the lights off & silence. But now she has begun to talk during it. I admit the first few times were very good for me. But now she says things that upset me. She keeps calling me a "big black buck". I am a normal white guy from Kent and i dont get why she is doing this.
She tells me to go faster or give her some medicine, like "go on you big black buck give me your medicine". I find it all very embarrassing. I cant ask her afterwards as i am too ashamed. She never mentions it. I thought maybe i should tell her sister or her friend to talk to her.
I am lost with what to do. Does anyone else have this experience? Thanks
2007-12-20 01:55:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take it like a man, woman like to be bossy, u men are always moaning us woman dont take control, just enjoy.
2007-12-20 02:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by pauline will never give up.xx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT....I repeat...DO NOT talk to anyone but her about this. She'll freak out if you discuss this issue with her sister or friend. I suggest writing her a note (or e-mail) about how you feel about it. She likely thinks you're enjoying it- maybe she saw something similar on tv (or porn) and thinks she's pleasing you. What do you say when it's over? Why not throw your head back and laugh and say "honey....buck???" just out of curiosity...where did you get that from? ha ha?" If you laugh about it it won't be so ackward and you don't want to make such a serious issue of it or she'll be hesitant to try anything new in the future and you'll be back to silence and lights out.
Good Luck!
2007-12-20 02:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by laura 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no disrespect BUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!,you should tell her to tell big bad buck to get to fcuk...she is your woman ,she wants it rough and ready dont wait until bed time ,take her whenever you feel the need and tell her that your just what the doctor ordered for her medicine,dont let her tell you when and where be masterful and you may win your woman back,..dont tell any one about it as the jokes will soon start and may not end, THEN YOU REALY ARE BUCKED. hope it works out, sort the woman some good luvin.lol.take care.
2007-12-20 15:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by aberdeen guy laughing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before the new wife says I do! Although if he calls you her when your acting b****** then it may be your making him think of her with that attitude. When my fiance gets' to oh poor me attitude and nit picking it makes me yell at him using my exes name, and no I do not want him back, now if it is during an intimate moment slap him real hard across the face andthreaten to cut off his sack and stick
2016-05-25 04:04:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's trying to spice things up in the bedroom department,so take the hint and get some ideas of you're own.
2007-12-20 08:24:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems she has fantasy's>Or something>Ask her whats up>Be nice to find out what she thinking & how she aquired the ideas>Hope there no surprises out there> Good luck>Might not be anything>
2007-12-20 02:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop bein a wuss. Sounds mean but it's serious. The only way to get her to stop is not be insecure. Be dominating by not leeting anything get to you. Who cares what she calls you. You are the only one who matters.
2007-12-20 01:59:03 · answer #7 · answered by Aware 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep giving her your medicine with one of Dr. Bateman's meat injections and quit worrying about it.
2007-12-20 02:01:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi...it is nice to meet you....I am Big Black Buck.
2007-12-20 02:05:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasising while having sex is not wrong.
Talking to others instead of the wife will be detrimental to your life.
2007-12-20 02:06:02 · answer #10 · answered by asmoothrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋