I find that I always picture a scene or another person in the room when i close my eyes. I suspect my wife does to.
She has 5 sisters in her family and the whole bunch wander through my mind when i lie back. I am very confused at to what else i should be thinking about. As soon as i get one of them to sniff around at the old back door "with a back stage pass" , well it's all over. I dont last very long after that.
Isnt this the point of fantasy. No one else is hurt, it's just a party in my head. Like a pig truffling. But i dont tell her that or my wife.
2007-12-20 01:46:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would think most people do, we just dont say that we do, i wont say what i think about!
2007-12-20 01:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by pauline will never give up.xx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I watch Talk Sex with Sue Johansen and the other night a caller had the same question. She said it is perfectly normal to fantasize about someone other than your partner and that most people do. She also said most people feel guilty about it and shouldn't. And there is no reason to tell anyone about it, as that might just cause problems.
As long as it's just a fantasy and not reality then it's okay. It would be another thing if you were sleeping with her sisters for real!
2007-12-20 02:46:29 · answer #2 · answered by Ambi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is just a fantasy it is ok because nobody is getting hurt. i wouldn't tell your wife though because i doubt she would be very happy that you are thinking about her sisters like that.
2007-12-20 01:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by brapbrapbren 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
atypical, each and every from time to time I try this too, yet no longer in many circumstances. each and every from time to time is okay simply by fact human beings ought to launch themselves yet i think of in case you do it each and all of the time, you like help, or there's a project alongside with your relationship.
2016-11-23 17:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by broadway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you wanna close your eyes when someone you love is making love to you? Shouldn't you be looking at the person you're having sex with? wth man? lol
2007-12-20 01:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by The Beast from the Middle East 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats fair,but while your banging at the back door,slow down and wonder who is in your wifes mind lol
2007-12-20 04:41:21 · answer #6 · answered by fozz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to think about baseball, it help me last longer.
2007-12-20 01:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I've answered the wrong question.
2007-12-20 01:49:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-12-20 01:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by Rana 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yuh its normal...ure human
2007-12-20 01:49:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋