please advice me on what to do, she does not have regards for me any more, she tells me how she visited another guy who tried to rape her, and does not come to my place as often again, pls help
2007-12-20 01:51:28 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Best advice i can give is to leave her where she belongs.
If she is visiting the person who she reckons raped her,then i would question whether it was true in the first place.
Sounds to me like she maybe an attention seeker,or she has problems you are not qualified or mature enough to deal with.
2007-12-20 02:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by asmoothrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to make more money. If you plan on having a woman it's best to make sure you have as much money as possible. In the end money matters in one way or another. Women want men who are at their level or better. So work hard and find a woman who is ok with how much you make and you'll be fine. Your girlfriend isn't a match for you so just move on. There's another one around every corner don't forget.
2007-12-20 01:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by Shinigami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay Buddy I'm sorry to tell you but you're not her dad yes a woman wants a man to protect her but love has no price value if she's leaving you because you don't make enough for her she's a gold digger and you don't need to be involved with anyone like that.she does not love you back if that's the only problem she had.and as far as the rape thing why was she at another mans house or is she just trying to make you feel bad.
2007-12-20 02:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fist of all if she really loved you then money shouldn;t matter and if she wants to be with someone or go see someone that tryed to rape her then she has problems the only thing you can do is try to do what you can with the money you do have and i guess in her world money buys love that thats not right . she should see you for who you are and not what you make but if i was you i would let her go and you will find some one that will love you for one and not for the money that is called a gold digger and that is what she is.
2007-12-20 01:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by ga_el_mi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fella didnt have a job for a while but that just meant i had to take care of the both of us for a while, we didnt have a home or anything but i stuck by him, if she really loves you she would no matter what your circumstances, if you try your best to be a good person then thats all you have to offer and if that isn't good enough for her let her go! You seem lovely so just let her do her own thing and get your self on track to better yourself and to find someone who will love you regardless of your situation, for richer and poorer, through sickness and in health! Good luck
2007-12-20 01:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sheryl W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all she counts on is your money she doesn't love you anyway. She's just using you. As for the claim of rape I would check into that. That could be a ploy to get you to feel sorry for her and want you to take care of her more. I can't say for sure though. I wasn't there.
2007-12-20 01:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by Nosfaratue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask your girlfriend why she is not visiting your place as often as she used to. Either she is no longer interested in you, or she is trying to make you jealous by telling you about another guy. You will never know the reasons why she does what she does unless you talk to her and ask her what is going on.
Good luck!
2007-12-20 01:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by Ria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi you better off without her she is just using you, stop seeing her your just putting yourself though pain when you dont need to.
Money isnt everything you know if she truely loves you then she will know this, she is treating you like crap and you deserve better. She should be letting you just take care of her with money, she need love and not just money to take care of her which means she is just after one thing, Your making yourself worse by running after her, tell her to get out and find someone who deserves you as this woman seems like an evil cow.
2007-12-20 02:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you want to be with her? it sounds like something is missing in the relationship and maybe you're trying too hard to hold it together. tell her how you feel and give her some time. after a while it may be wise to move on. you sound a good person and i know you'll meet someone who appreciates you for who you are money or not.
2007-12-20 01:55:41 · answer #9 · answered by martinique 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are losing your girlfriend because you do not have enough money to take care of her????
Then all I can say, is get down on your hands and knees and thank God that you are losing her, and ask for his help in getting you through this. And pray that you never allow anyone to take you for a ride like this again.
If you like it this way, then I have nothing to say about it or to you.
2007-12-20 01:56:21 · answer #10 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋