Family & Relationships - 20 December 2007

Taking your child (3yrs old) and her son by a previous relationship (not marriage) After about a month and a half WANTS TO DUMP "THAT" guy,,and ask you to go back with her and move 263 miles away from "ANY" family ties,,and move in with another couple,,you hardly know??? Who've recently had their own "separation" problems???

2007-12-20 08:31:17 · 8 answers · asked by themojoman_dj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

big b o o b s try to use them to their advantage? To get their way with men, to get a job, to get out of a ticket, to get into a club, etc??

2007-12-20 08:30:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who is married and sleeping around on his wife with a couple of women. One of them is around his age and the other one is underage. She is 16! They are about 11 yrs apart. I know Ive been told I have an obligation to protect her since she is young and naive but then again do I want to make it my business? I would hate to see him go to jail but I feel like this is gonna creep up on him and bite him in the A$$. He will go to jail and lose his wife. Does he just need to learn his own lesson? Or what should I do?

2007-12-20 08:29:57 · 5 answers · asked by solelone 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my husband have been married for alittle over 2 yrs and 4 mo. ago he told me he no longer was in love with me then started going out all hours i begged him to compromise or i'd go to my mothers so he could figure out what he wanted from me and i would wait for him to tell me to come home he didnt want to but wanted me to stay i made the decition to go 2 wks later i came back because i found out he started talking to some b****from work after threats of leaving him 5 he finally seems to have stopped (oh and threats to the girl) he swears they were just friends yet she said she loved him. he would come home and inniciate sex with me though. after the last time i found out I told him I was misserable knowing he was still talking to her and i couldnt live like that we switched numbers and she changed hers. her last words to me were he doesnt want me and no matter what he wont leave me or let me leave he convinces me to stay. we have a son and i love him so much

2007-12-20 08:29:32 · 8 answers · asked by theoretical 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This girl that I like so much knows this big secret of mine. I recently got her cellphone number and we've had these casual conversations. How do I know that she's open to this romantic relationship and not the friendly one. Please give me INDIRECT QUESTIONS of how I can ask her this. Please help

2007-12-20 08:29:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

These two ppl have been friends with me for over 5 years but they have recently been really disapointing me.Should I forgive them for what they did,or learn that friendships change and move on?They are sisters and live together. I wanted to see guy strippers for my 21st birthday becuase i've never done that before and love trying new things.I had told them for over a month that that's what I wanted to do, and a week before the celebratiion date I had the table booked and the plans made. But they ditched out on my birthday celebration-1 HOUR-before we were all sopposed to leave. With no remorse they both decided not to go to my birthday! I'll write the whole situation at the bottom, but what it comes down to is that they ditched a supposed BFF for her birthday. Please read the whole situation and tell me if I should forgive, if they were right for not comming, or if I should just learn to move on?

2007-12-20 08:28:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

lmao
my friend heather wrote me a note asking me this
heather is like my sister and i just thought it was funny..
so do you know wat they are???

2007-12-20 08:27:57 · 2 answers · asked by babyy 1 in Friends

Do you get tired quick?

My husband who's 20.. could do it any more after awhile last night and he cummed awhole LOT and then we had to stop cause he could do no more..

2007-12-20 08:25:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my parents sent a email to day comfirming an appontment to put my dog to sleeep! the reson is he bit my sister but i know hes a good dog!! im criying all over right now because of it!!!!! how can i con vice my paents to cancel it!! this is the wost christmas gift ever! Ps(hes a small doxen and i have another dog basset) (im too young for this (13))

2007-12-20 08:25:16 · 8 answers · asked by Dan The Man 3 in Family

I am very much in love. He wants to marry me. I have reasearched bipolar disorder, but still worry about our future. He has accumulated debts, poor hygiene, bad time management, and on occassion seems distant. Through baby steps I have seen great improvement, but my family and friends worry about me. I worry about him. I want to marry this man but get little support. I am not asking whether I should marry him, but want to know about people who are married. How do you make it work? When does it get hard? Have you noticed any difference in your marriage when compared to others?

2007-12-20 08:24:47 · 9 answers · asked by BIRDY85 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do girls try to cause drama for other girls? I know this girl, she's 23 but acts like she's twelve, i don't talk to her that often but when she talks to me she always tried to cause drama in my life. I'm 20, married, and I really don't have time for her but I don't want to be mean. What should I do? Could she be doing this out of jealousy/immaturity? It's really getting on my nerves!!!

2007-12-20 08:23:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-20 08:23:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anya A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what are other keys to having a great conversation?

2007-12-20 08:23:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

no offense to any1. what does it mean when people say "i'd tap that"? i know kinda but making sure before i use it the wrong way

2007-12-20 08:23:13 · 6 answers · asked by Nickels6 2 in Singles & Dating

All my life I've noticed ARIES females somewhat like SCORPIO females run thru men like firecrackers. ON THE THE NEXT ONE! Seems to be their only goal. AND THEY GOTTA BE THE "BOSS" and wear the pants,RIGHT?

2007-12-20 08:20:35 · 11 answers · asked by themojoman_dj 1 in Singles & Dating

Why does it seem as if my mom likes my sister more?

My sister is 15 and she curses at my mom and she does not get in trouble but when i was 16,im now 18, i curse at my mom and my mom tells me that she hates me and she was going to kick me out the house!

I always got yelled at when i got in trouble at school when i was younger and now my sister is in High school and failing two classes and does not get in trouble at all.

My mom has even told me that she likes my sister more and that i was ugly and stupid.

Is this favortism or am i just jealous at my sister?

2007-12-20 08:20:20 · 10 answers · asked by **Georgia Peach** 6 in Family

Ok I have finally decided to go through with the divorce. Here is a quick note of how I got to this point.

All of the signs are there that she does not want to be married to me. She says she is confused and doesn't know what she wants. She says I am the love of her life, but she does not feel that she is good enough to be my wife. I have never said anything like that and I have been working for the past 12 months to fix our marriage. I even quit my road warrior job for a lower paying job so I don't have to travel.

Anyway when I ask her what she want's to do she says she doesn't know. But if I say then I want a divorce, she says ok if that is what you want. So the signs for me is that she wants me to be the one who does the divorce. Fine I take full responsiblity.

But now she is upset that I don't want to be her friend after the divorce. I don't know what to think. Oh we don't have any kids so there is really no reason to be friends afterwords.

What do you guys think?

2007-12-20 08:20:13 · 20 answers · asked by Konfused 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My live-in girlfriend of six months recently told me that she loved me but was not in love with me. Referencing a similar situation with her best friend's marriage, she noted that her best friend was not in love with her partner when they married, but grew to love him over time. Now she is in love with him. So while she's not in love we me (but only loves me) she explains that there is a possibility that she can become in love with me. What's the deal? Does it make sense, to love but not to be in love? What should I do with this scenario? I

2007-12-20 08:19:58 · 7 answers · asked by dominia 2 in Singles & Dating

is it legal to have sex with a 13 yo if your 15 yo and if so do you think its right

2007-12-20 08:18:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband's brother proposed to his girlfriend just before Thanksgiving, shortly after we announced to our family that we're pregnant with our 2nd child, and due May 18th. My husband's brother called to find out what a good or bad time to have the wedding would be, and we said to plan it for whenever they need to, and not to worry about us. shortly after, he asked my husband to be his best man, and asked again when would be a good time for us to go. This time, we told him that April and May would not be good for us. He called back a few weeks later and said they need to have it in April for various reasons. My husband said that the earlier in April, the better my chances of going. His brother called back again to say its going to be April 30th. My doctor won't allow me to travel at that time (out-of-state) so I will not be attending. Even though we originally said not to plan it around us, I still have hurt feelings, like it didn't matter to them that I wasn't going to be able

2007-12-20 08:17:52 · 28 answers · asked by Katie G 6 in Weddings

Mother and I have had a rocky relationship since i was a baby. She has always treated me like crap and never been there for me. But no matter what i have always been there for her. She has always treated me as if i wasnt her daughter though. So up until 6 months ago i still listened to her and respected her even though her advise was always wrong and distorted because shes always high on weed or zanxes. Anyways to make a long story short 6 months ago she told me to stay out of her life. I did until thanksgiving i made an effort and baked her a few of her favorite pies and dropped them off. I invited her to my daughters b-day party and she said she was busy. She didnt call say happy birthday or anything. The day before was her other grand babys b-day and she gave her money, bought gifts, and a cake for her. BUt doesnt do anything for my daughter. Now shes always treated me like crap and i still buy her gifts and give her money etc. I dont want to this year should i feel guilty, im tired

2007-12-20 08:17:36 · 6 answers · asked by Kristi A 4 in Family

Ok my partner and i have been together for 6months now and in other things the relationship is great apart from one thing.....
He always wants blow jobs and ive told him my reasion for not giving them that often, he goes on and on about blowjobs and how hes gone from everyday getting them to nothing and that just makes me not to want to give them too him when hes like that. I enjoy giving them but only when im in the mood and i havnt hurd about him going on. What am i ment to do????

2007-12-20 08:17:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when im with my mate shes fine with me but if someone else comes out with us she starts like picking on me like making jokes or just like say well you wouldnt basically saying im slow or something..and shes done it with me and my mate when there was a group of us out and they stuck up for us..she dosnt say it in a nasty was just a jokey way but theres still no need for it..she dosnt do it if theres just me and her

2007-12-20 08:17:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Last night when I was having sex with my husband... few minutes later, we stopped because he couldn't do anymore...

Why is this???

2007-12-20 08:15:47 · 84 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up with my fiance after he slept with my best friend 2 years ago.
I broke my relationship with my best friend too. You can imagine what I've been through .
Now just a couple of days ago, I ran into my ex fiance and my ex best friend together at the grocery store and they're pregnant. I saw rings on their fingers so I guess they got married. The conversation was brief and awkward. I just acted like I'm happy and asked how they are and they faked their smile too and we continued shopping.
I'm so depressed and still single. My ex fiance still looked handsome (and I thought he would look messed up but he actually looked better!)
How do I move on?

2007-12-20 08:15:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up with my fiance after he slept with my best friend 2 years ago.
I broke my relationship with my best friend too. You can imagine what I've been through .
Now just a couple of days ago, I ran into my ex fiance and my ex best friend together at the grocery store and they're pregnant. I saw rings on their fingers so I guess they got married. The conversation was brief and awkward. I just acted like I'm happy and asked how they are and they faked their smile too and we continued shopping.
I'm so depressed and still single. My ex fiance still looked handsome (and I thought he would look messed up but he actually looked better!)
How do I move on?

2007-12-20 08:14:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-12-20 08:13:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 17 and i want a older guy... is that bad

2007-12-20 08:13:57 · 12 answers · asked by cheflol 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy and he knows i like him but he wont say if he likes me, but since he found out i liked him we havent talked. Tomarro is the last day of school until after christmas break. I wont to do something so he will remember me over the break, but i dont know if i am ready to talk to him yet. So if anyone has any good ideas on wut i should do, that would be great! Also he has been looking at me a lot, and he smiled at me once in the hall but i was licky i caught it, if you can tell by this if he likes me or not that would also be great to know. Thanks for the help!

2007-12-20 08:13:49 · 5 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-20 08:13:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating