Family & Relationships - 20 December 2007

if this kid you thought was really cute and nice just stoped talking to you. and then you find out that your best friend brutily asked him why he was leading you on. [he wasn't leading me on at all, we talked when we could and sometimes we'd talk on the phone] but it wasn't like he told be how much he likes me and then one day he doesn't talk and stuff. to me he wasn't leading me on. i was mad when she told me that she had asked him that, but hey it was too late for me to get mad.
so hes stoped talking to me. and now that we're on christmas break i won't be able to tell him in person that i don't know where my friend was coming from and that i'm not one of those clingy girls that fall in love quickly.
so should i call him now? or just wait and tell him if i see him around [which proably won't happen]
i haven't had that good of a week, and i know jsut talkin to him would make me happy. but will it be akword seems it happend last week? do you think hes even stoped talkin to me?HELP!

2007-12-20 08:13:26 · 17 answers · asked by CYDVICIOUS 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, this question may sound stupid, I admit. I am very attracted to my husband. He is a wonderful person inside and very physically attractive in my eyes.

They say "you need to stroke a man's ego". I love complimenting my husband. I tell him how attractive and adorable he is. Also I tell him he's very smart and other things on occasion.

However, sometimes words are not enough to describe how I feel. Is there another word that doesn't sound corny to men that describes "how beautiful" a person is? "Handsome" sounds old fashioned and corny.

Do you have suggestions on other descriptive words? For men, what does your woman say to you that helps you feel like you are the most important person in her life?

2007-12-20 08:13:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why does that make you answer a question?

2007-12-20 08:10:59 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got engaged to my husband, Cooper, at my graduation ceremony. We'd been dating 3 years and had just begun having sex, and a few weeks after my 19th birthday, I found out that I was pregnant.

Cooper and I got married, and I gave birth to our beautiful son Christopher, and our angelic daughter, Kaylie, followed 2 yrs later. I just gave birth to our triplets, Alyssa, Brooke, and Cade, 5 mos ago, and Cooper and I have decided to get a divorce.

So here I am, 25 yrs old in the middle of a divorce, with my 5 children stuck in the middle. I regret feeling this way, but sometimes I wish I had waited just a few more years before started my family. I love my children to death; each and every one of them, but sometimes I just wonder that if I hadn't bore them at such a young age, I might have been able to travel, go to college, and maybe establish a career.

Am I wrong to feel this way? Did I indeed start my family when I was too young?
Please tell me the truth
Thank you all very much

2007-12-20 08:10:58 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

why or why not?

2007-12-20 08:07:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because he leaves to work at 10:00 oclock in the morning does not get out till 10:00 at night he ses he is putting over time but his pay cheak on regular hours is saposed to be 80 hours but it is 74 regular hours and the over time hours are 56 i fill in between those hour he is cheating he is aris i am leo

2007-12-20 08:07:12 · 23 answers · asked by redrum123456 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do u think my partner is cheating. he has changed all his passwords on pc is always givin his msm thing to others and always texting people on his phone also makes up things that his mates need his help with this and that also he is on internet til 2am in morning everyday and never helps look after our daughter..... please help

2007-12-20 08:07:03 · 41 answers · asked by Gem H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

to realize that their spouse isn't what they want after all?

I'm not talking about me---we're quite happy---but a mate of mine is now not happy with her man, meanwhile he was a dork before the kid, why do people think a kid would change a person that much?!

2007-12-20 08:06:07 · 25 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm going crazy with my girlfriend. We've been dating for nearly two years, and we've certainly had our differences, including two break ups last winter, but we've managed to get through. Lately though I've just been numb towards her. I can't seem to find that spark between us anymore. I feel like I'm on autopilot with this girl, and it's killing me because I don't really want to break up with her- I just want to be interested in someone again. Part of me simply can't let go of this girl (I took her back when we broke up earlier), but part of me is really doubting we're really worth anything outside of just dating.
I'm no cheater, but the thought has crossed my mind more than once. I figure the fact that I'm even thinking this way is a bad sign.
Can anybody shed some light/offer some advice on this?

2007-12-20 08:05:16 · 8 answers · asked by TooMuch 4 in Singles & Dating

What is the difference between to kiss and to "make out"? Just wondering lol cos' I thought it was the same but apparently not!

2007-12-20 08:02:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and his ex wife were divorced 7 years ago. She has never given him a problem with visitation or money matters (and, yes, he pays his child support on time and in full) until he recently married me. We have been together for 7 months and married three of those months. We have not seen the children in 7 weeks because she is using them as leverage to get more money. We have hired a lawyer and she is being found in contempt. She says that she has talked to a lawyer and he told her that she could get a percentage of my income and tax returns. My husband IS NOT behind on child support. Our lawyer says that there is no way she can get my income. Let me know what you think.

2007-12-20 08:01:25 · 23 answers · asked by jazzygirl110381 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok..so i told this guy tat i like, that tis guy named david is cute..not cute cute, just baby cute...he sed yea yea yea and sighed..wen i asked him something, he didnt look me in the eye when he usually do wen he talks to me and he didnt talk to me much the whole class like he always do..i no that he likes me..so was he jealous, i wasnt trying to make him jealous or nething, cuz i dnt want that...

2007-12-20 08:00:20 · 5 answers · asked by abbiesc 3 in Singles & Dating

e.g. blonde/blue, black/brown, red/green, etc etc
State a reason if you wish
thx ^-^

2007-12-20 07:58:39 · 19 answers · asked by spark 2 in Singles & Dating

If no, what would tempt you if anything?

2007-12-20 07:57:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He said your Nintendo DS looks like pepto bismol (its pink) and then he always seems to say excuse me to me and be nice to me. and he doesnt to other girls. people say hes a jerk. when im talking to people they say a lot of the time he comes over to that group. and i made this BAD project and he said can I sit on it. then my friend and I and him were talking and she asked me how many guys do you like? and I said you dont wanna know and he said she likes every guy she sees Does he like me like that? why do you think he does/doesnt

2007-12-20 07:55:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i hate my brother and once hes 19 i want him gone... in 3 years hes that.. i keep thinkin to myself 3 years

2007-12-20 07:55:15 · 10 answers · asked by Blah H 1 in Family

When it hurts too bad to laugh.........
and I'm too old to cry?
I can't even discuss it with anyone. um, there is no one anymore.

2007-12-20 07:55:01 · 13 answers · asked by ed 7 in Marriage & Divorce

desperate for help. Loosing the battle, fear for the future for 14 and 12 yr old grandsons.

2007-12-20 07:54:51 · 1 answers · asked by Petunia03 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well we were (are) close friends
But I just met her in September
and I knew she liked another guy, and I told her to go for it and try it with this guy
and then I told her how I liked her
and she got mad at me and started to tell me how she doesn't understand why i would put her in that kind of situation and stuff
and how we were close friends but now shes not going to feel as comfortable with me. People have been telling me that if we really were close friends, then I should just give her some space and it'll blow over and we'll go back to being close again, and that she was just shocked that I told her.
so
Why did she say what she said, and why is she mad at me? and do you think we could be close friends again?

2007-12-20 07:52:16 · 14 answers · asked by George Johnson 2 in Singles & Dating

well i am a 29 year old mother to 3 little girls. me and my husband have been together 10 yrs now. we havent gotten along that well in all that time, but i later found out i have bipolar and have done pretty well this year on my meds. i feel alot closer to him now then ever. hes always been really clingy to me, but recently this year, it seems i became better and hes always yelling and screaming and losing his temper over nothing lately. even with the kids to. am i wrong to think he may be cheating or thiking about it ?? hes so distant now, and i see no reason for him to be this way, especially when things have been going so well. were both in therapy and hes not getting anywhere with it. seems it doesnt even help him. im just looking for opinions i guess, thanks to all in advance.

2007-12-20 07:51:12 · 4 answers · asked by saphirespice 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a husband that has an addiction to porn. I slipped after 6 months of therapy and being good, and really need her forgiveness so we can move on. I know I've deeply hurt her. To her it's like I've cheated. I know I'm responsible. I know I suck - I just need some help to win her back. I'm going to quit, but those that have overcome addictions know how hard it can be, especially when you are really trying to find your personality failings - why I went to porn in the first place.

I really need her support to recover. I know she really needs some support to recover from what I've done. I want to help where I can.

Actions speak louder that words, but what actions can you do for someone who doesn't even want to talk to you anymore?

Any ideas from people who've had to forgive their husbands for similar things?

2007-12-20 07:50:57 · 15 answers · asked by Steve 2 in Marriage & Divorce

make it new and interesting

2007-12-20 07:50:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I went to New York for the summer and loved it, I've always loved New York. But when I came home to the country I hated it. I gained weight and college was just so weird to me. How am I supposed to be an adult but the college was still trying to tie me down and make me have the same rules that I had in high school? Anyway, I really love New York but I'm just a young adult without that many funds trying to do right with my life. I do want to complete school and I want to pursue singing (which my mom is against) but I'm just not happy. I don't want to grow up to be a 40 year old that hasn't completed my dream but at the same time I want to make myself and everyone else happy. What should I do? Please don't tell me that I can't please everyone and to not care about anyones opinions but my own because it doesn't help. My family is a big part in my life and in all the decisions I make

2007-12-20 07:46:57 · 3 answers · asked by blueprincessdivina 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I posted a question a moment ago and a number of answers were affair... and i as well have had this thought. He shows no emotions about me nor his daughter. I just called him to tell him something that his mother wanted him to know (nothing pertaining to him and i) and when i was getting off the phone he said bye i said i love you and in the same tone he said bye again. no emotion.

i think i have done all i can and i think it will take an act of God to help us... so I know you people dont know me personally but i really need prayers... please pray that if he is cheating that his coincience will catch him, that if he isnt then that his heart of stone will soften and he will see that his family is more important then to just be let go. pray that i may have the strength and wisdom to carry on with or without him through whatever happens. And that i will know what to do next to help my daughter and i and hopefully my family.

2007-12-20 07:46:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I went to a friends house. there was a bunch of drunk people and this guy kept throwing himself on me. I was playing Dance Dance Revoultion and i had to go to the bathroom so i walked up stairs to go. I locked the door and the next thing i know this guy walked in as i washing my hands and i was like what the fuc* are u doing get out. The music was really lound so i started to scream but no one heard me then he picked me up took me into a room and throw me on the bed and jumped on top me. He stared to take my colths off and so i grab the colest thing to me and i hit him with it and ran out the door and walked home. HOW DO I TELL MY BOYFRIEND

2007-12-20 07:45:52 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please not guy anwers and only ladies. dont be shy ladies i respect all opinions so aswer truthfully. For me the attraction is that older woman have more experience and are easier to please.

2007-12-20 07:45:42 · 7 answers · asked by Paul H 2 in Singles & Dating

Dealing with the holidays has me completely depressed. It is my first Christmas that I have to share the kids with the ex. I don't know how any other mothers out there deal or dealt with this, but I feel horrible. The closer it gets to Christmas, the worse it is for me. I feel like crying all day long, and I know that sounds crazy, but it is just really effecting me horribly. I have a great boyfriend who I love so much, and even he can't get me out of this thought process. Am I the only one feeling or felt like this? I am hoping this will end after the holidays, because if it doesn't, I know that I am going to have to talk to a professional.

2007-12-20 07:45:03 · 5 answers · asked by Shannon29 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Follow-up the all the other questions i ask about wife maybe cheating online more............. If anyone can figure this one out i would be very greatfull................ for the past 5 years, any time i try to ineceiate sex with my wife she fills obligated and presured and is not really into it and just seems do it to fullfill a duty its seems. But for some reason, if i turn her down when she does try to iniceate sex with me, she gets upset with me. This is so strange. OK.. HERE IS THE WORST.. About 4 years ago the sex was VERY GOOD but to my knowledge i found out she was seeing another man at the sametime so i think i was getting the left over fire or guilt she had. So now i think when she does make the effert to really make sex very good, i think she is still cheating, and thats may be why she only wants it to be her who iniceates it on her terms and gets mad when i try to inicetae sex. I think she only puts the nice effert when she is hot from someone elese.....................

2007-12-20 07:44:46 · 14 answers · asked by danomanfishing 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have no time & no more money to get the rest of my family gifts for Christmas .!
i feel so bad for this, because usually im the only young person who gets the older people presents in my family.
so i have
1 guy cousin (i think hes around 24)
3 uncles (one has to be something light so they can take it on a plane)
2 grandfathers
1 grandma
and the worst : stepdad, dad, and mom .!!
anything that is Do It Yourself would be SO GREAT.
someone please help me .! im dying, here .!

2007-12-20 07:41:45 · 3 answers · asked by halleee_xox 4 in Family

My husbands best friend is getting married and no one can stand his bride to be! My husband has sucked it up and agreed to be the best man ("I'll be here when he makes the mistake, and I'll be here for him when the mistake comes full circle") They moved to our town to start a new life away from their home town, and they don't have many friends here, so this girl has attached herself to me! Ugh! She's everything you DON'T want in a friend. Clingy, selfish, frequently freaks out on her bf, and demands you take sides, she's just all around bad news. She's asked me to be her maid of honor because it'd be SO cute what w/ my hubby being the best man. She really doesn't have a whole lot of friends, she alienated herself from friends and family over her recent life choices. I feel bad but I seriously don't think I'll be able to take her freaking out on ME over every wedding detail.... She emailed me the request so I'm trying to think of a nice way to say NO!!!! Help!?!?!

2007-12-20 07:41:34 · 24 answers · asked by mrs.v 4 in Weddings