if this kid you thought was really cute and nice just stoped talking to you. and then you find out that your best friend brutily asked him why he was leading you on. [he wasn't leading me on at all, we talked when we could and sometimes we'd talk on the phone] but it wasn't like he told be how much he likes me and then one day he doesn't talk and stuff. to me he wasn't leading me on. i was mad when she told me that she had asked him that, but hey it was too late for me to get mad.
so hes stoped talking to me. and now that we're on christmas break i won't be able to tell him in person that i don't know where my friend was coming from and that i'm not one of those clingy girls that fall in love quickly.
so should i call him now? or just wait and tell him if i see him around [which proably won't happen]
i haven't had that good of a week, and i know jsut talkin to him would make me happy. but will it be akword seems it happend last week? do you think hes even stoped talkin to me?HELP!
2007-12-20 08:13:26 · 17 answers · asked by CYDVICIOUS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should call him and get it all straightened out, you would feel better
have a good christmas
2007-12-20 08:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by COUNTRY GIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, not really a good friend to do something like that.
I'm thinkin' she is a little jealous of your friendship with this guy and she was trying to get you and him not to talk anymore.
Second of all, call him. Tell him your friend told you what she said to him and that she had no right. You enjoy your friendship with him and that you hope he doesn't let someone being stupid ruin a good thing. Only call him once though. Tell him what you have to say and then the ball is in his court.
Also, I'd keep a close eye on this girl "friend" and don't trust her with anything too important. I had a friend like that once
and she turned out to be NO FRIEND AT ALL!!!
2007-12-20 08:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Trish 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just call him. He probably stopped talking to you because he thought you were mad at him for "leading you on" as your friend said. Just let him know exactly what you said here : you don't know where your friend was coming from and that your not one of those clingy girls that fall in love quickly.
2007-12-20 08:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by *Smiling_Star* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so glad I had sons, not daughters. I don't think I'd have the patience to deal with all this sort of nonsense through the teenage years!
He's probably stopped talking to you because she's scared him off. You should wait till you next see him and tell him you don't know what she was thinking of but you were really enjoying your friendship and would he like ot pick up your friendship again were you left off.
2007-12-20 08:18:51 · answer #4 · answered by Xai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give him one more day after the break and if he dosen`t say any thing to you then go up to him and say something...dont be scared...if you guys were good friend then he should understand...and if he makes a big deal out of it then move on...lol, there are more fishes in the sea ya know...well when things happen between you to that are good let me know!!!add me on yahoo: lilblondebrat94
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2007-12-20 08:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by baby_brat94 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awkward or not, call him. this will worry you all through the holidays if you don't get it out in the open. Maybe he just found someone else, and it had nothing to do with you. Oh to be young again, and have this kind of crises to deal with.
2007-12-20 08:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by Lynn731 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a really cute kid started to talk to me and my friends thought I was falling in love with a kid... I would have my balls removed!
2007-12-20 08:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know that your friend was concerned for you but does not speak for you and that if he doesnt want to talk to you anymore then thats fine but that you are wondering what his situation is.. ask and find out how he feels about the whole thing
2007-12-20 08:19:57 · answer #8 · answered by *~shorty~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him if u think u didn't do anything wrong to hurt his feeling u shouldn't feel guilty of anything and beside u must explain the little thing with ur friend
2007-12-20 08:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well have you ever thought about this...? maybe your friends likes him! around you she probably asks like she doesn't but maybe she does!
OR she could be jealous because from the sounds of it you and this guy were pretty close and maybe your bff is jealous of y'all's relationship!
2007-12-20 08:19:03 · answer #10 · answered by ♥cookies♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋