Follow-up the all the other questions i ask about wife maybe cheating online more............. If anyone can figure this one out i would be very greatfull................ for the past 5 years, any time i try to ineceiate sex with my wife she fills obligated and presured and is not really into it and just seems do it to fullfill a duty its seems. But for some reason, if i turn her down when she does try to iniceate sex with me, she gets upset with me. This is so strange. OK.. HERE IS THE WORST.. About 4 years ago the sex was VERY GOOD but to my knowledge i found out she was seeing another man at the sametime so i think i was getting the left over fire or guilt she had. So now i think when she does make the effert to really make sex very good, i think she is still cheating, and thats may be why she only wants it to be her who iniceates it on her terms and gets mad when i try to inicetae sex. I think she only puts the nice effert when she is hot from someone elese.....................
2007-12-20 07:44:46 · 14 answers · asked by danomanfishing 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow, you make a very strong case for letting your wife have other lovers! I mean, when she's worked up over another man, the sex with you improves. Maybe you would do well to discuss this with your wife and formalize the arrangement.
2007-12-20 07:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your trust was broken you have your doubts about your wife, this will never change. The question you should be asking are you happy, If its just insecure thing about the sex because of what she has done before then what you need to do is come to terms with what YOU want. Is this marriage save-able? Are you willing to live with thinking that everytime she asks for sex its cuz she wanted someone else. In my eyes not a good way to live. You really need to think about where YOU stand and what YOUR willing to live with. Dont sit around and just blow it off because then you'll never be happy. Good luck!!!!
2007-12-20 08:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by memyslf&I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK what's the question? But maybe you should spice thigns up a little and do some role playing or somethign that will make her hot for you. Never can tell maybe she's just bored teh way you ahve sex with her. SO have a talk with her and try changing positions, pole playing and other stuff.
2007-12-20 08:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by John S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one way to found out if a spouse is cheating online is by using keylogger software, what this does it that you install it on a PC and it records everything that he/she does. If i were u i would use a software keylogger. I bought keyprowler, which is a very good and inexpensive Keylogger engine and much more. it not only does keylogging, but takes screenshots and emails you logs even when you do not have access to the program! check it out...I like keyprowler because it is very simple to use and not overly complicated like the other keylogging software.
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Try to use commercials keyloggers that gives you a free trial time.
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2007-12-23 08:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had the same sort of things happen. I always felt bad when I asked for sex, but when she wanted it and I didn't, there was hell to pay. I just always took it when I could and made the best of it. Once I was very sick, and told her no, she went off, I ended up having sex with her, made sure I kissed her alot and got her sick too. It was a revenge I laugh to myself about. I never told her my intent of getting her sick.
The good sex being equated to her cheating, might be in your head and something you have to work out on you own. I'm not sure theres much your wife can to fix that. If she gets worked up over someone and you get the wild sex ,, go with the flow. My ex went to a male review, got all worked up, came home and about killed me. I told her anytime she wanted to go to a male review,,,,,, have at it, just be sure to come home and take it all out on me. Good Luck
2007-12-20 07:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you really know she was cheating before maybe she just masturbates a lto, if your married you guys should not be with anyone else and should not even masturbate if you are having sexual incompatibilities. why don't try some different foreplay, you both have needs and it is best to be insync, at the very least I hope you guys are in the same bed every night, it's winter try feet cuddling and breast rubbing if she is cold. good luck.
2007-12-20 08:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by marianne o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what is really going on and unless you leave her she will continue cheating. When you get tired you will leave her. From what I read all I hear is that you're assuming she is cheating and you know what assuming makes. If you don't have any concrete evidence then you to stop being so insecure.
2007-12-20 07:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by KSR 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-28 01:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what exactly is your question? My question to you is..... why are you with your cheating wife who ONLY wants sex on her terms? Grow a pair and divorce her azz....
2007-12-20 07:50:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be that she is cheating on you. But it could also be that she is really interested in sex.
2007-12-20 07:57:23 · answer #10 · answered by PRINCESS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋