is this a sign of cheating?

Question

do u think my partner is cheating. he has changed all his passwords on pc is always givin his msm thing to others and always texting people on his phone also makes up things that his mates need his help with this and that also he is on internet til 2am in morning everyday and never helps look after our daughter..... please help

Answer 1

id call the f.b.i. there medium. xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Answer 2

I would make him explain himself, he needs to start being a dad and a partner. I would be so angry if that was me, don't put up with it. Men have a way of twisting things, making things seem like they are your fault!! Listen to your instincts, they're not usually wrong. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself, your child will thank you in the long run, good luck xx

If you really want to know what sites he has been looking at, go onto his computer, press start, go to control panel, from there choose internet options, then you can press view files and it'll show you all the sites he's been on. Also go into internet explorer and check his history!

Answer 3

Questions like this will come & go in your head as long as you're in a relationship. So, let me tell from experience... You may break up someday cause you can't stand being miserable w/ him, being unhappy, and so angry sometimes -- you could lash out. BUT, even then; you will not get answers to this sh*t! No advise will help you deal w/ this. It's the fact that u are dealing w/ it. U aren't doing something else INSTEAD. Try ANYTHING ELSE, read a book, do a croosword puzzle, take your daughter to a movie, go 4 cheeseburgers. Your husband is having a life. I know it stings. Your bored. Do something yourself; give up on waiting for him to ... hell, I don't know... go shopping w/ you & carry the dogfood? He wants to play football online, So what!

Answer 4

My husband used to stay up late, usually watching tele. Then he suddenly changed and said he wanted to do some business over the internet, so he stayed up till very late on the computer every night. I used to go to bed on my own, and I complained about it, but nothing changed.

A few months later I found out that he was having an affair and all the emails and stuff he wrote to her were whilst he was up late every night.

I am not saying this is happening to you, but if I were you, I would keep a close eye on what he is doing. I would not want anyone to go through what I went through. It was an episode that almost finished with me.

I wish you all the luck!!!

Answer 5

dont mean to worry you but this is a mirror image of what happened to me a while ago
my partner would make some excuse to go out saying his friend had problems and he would go online through the night if he could
i eventually found out he was cheating and kept in touch with her via emails and msn as well as social websites
you could get a keylogger installed or just go to his cookies
or go to user accounts delete his password go onto his user acount and check his history
there are many ways
i just knew i was right from the start
if youre not hiding anything on the pc then why is he
sounds like a cheater to me
sorry to be so harsh

Answer 6

It sounds like you have a trust issue with him. You don't have any real proof that he could be cheating. He doesn't need to be on the computer until 2 am or change his password to be cheating. He could be cheating and not be doing any of the signs you named. What do you plan on doing when enough people on here tells you he is cheating? Are you going to leave? You need focus your attention on him, give him a reason to come to bed.

Answer 7

Of course he his!!! exactly what my hubby did and he finally confessed to having a 4 month affair. Confront him?? When he says he going to help a friend say you'll join him!!! If he's on the internet you can check the history to find out what he has been looking at and chatting to. Unfornately i found out all these things afterwards but believe me and would be quick of the mark if there was to be a next time but for me and the kids i hope not. good luck xx

Answer 8

While these things may or may not be signs of cheating, it is definitely a sign of something wrong in the relationship. It sounds as if his attention has "wandered" to elsewhere. How old is your daughter? Your description reminds me of someone I know who became very secretive while they were having a relationship (not sexual, but certainly extra-marital) outside of their partnership. If you haven't confronted him about this, perhaps you should do so. If you really want to know what is going on, do not attack him, just firmly state that you need to know if he is committed to the relationship with you and let him know what you know about his activities.

Good luck.

Answer 9

Doubting is the "virus" in human relation. It is better for you to show him that you trust him and does not doubt him at all. At the same time, try to spent more time with him even when he is alone. he has the right to privacy and do not bother about it. Try to be frank and open. Do not be a nagging wife. A amn thinks of cheating only when he fials to get what he wants from his wife. Be there to offer him what he wants. Then there will not be any need for you to worry.

Answer 10

I am really sorry to say this, but exactly the same thing happened to my friend and her husband was cheating on her with many girls at the time.

He started to dress better, to use perfume and regular haircuts.
He said he used the internet for banking on-line but the real thing was cheating on-line.

Answer 11

Sure sounds like it. Tell him to either spend less time on the computer and more time looking after his daughter, or he'll be in for big changes come the new year.