I posted a question a moment ago and a number of answers were affair... and i as well have had this thought. He shows no emotions about me nor his daughter. I just called him to tell him something that his mother wanted him to know (nothing pertaining to him and i) and when i was getting off the phone he said bye i said i love you and in the same tone he said bye again. no emotion.
i think i have done all i can and i think it will take an act of God to help us... so I know you people dont know me personally but i really need prayers... please pray that if he is cheating that his coincience will catch him, that if he isnt then that his heart of stone will soften and he will see that his family is more important then to just be let go. pray that i may have the strength and wisdom to carry on with or without him through whatever happens. And that i will know what to do next to help my daughter and i and hopefully my family.
2007-12-20 07:46:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
2007-12-20 07:46:29 · update #1
the other one is wrong this is the right one:
http://s242.photobucket.com/albums/ff260/brettandlynette/?action=view¤t=HPIM0447.jpg
2007-12-20 07:47:09 · update #2
fyi we did not get married because we got pregnant we were planning the wedding before i found out i was prego
2007-12-20 08:15:51 · update #3
I had a non-emotional man as well. I did not find out until a broken marriage 17 years later that he never told me he loved me because he thought he showed me by going to work every day and providing. The Bible wrote about the different needs of men and women. "Men, love your wives,Women, respect your husbands". If a man shows love to his wife then he will reap the rewards by having her respect him. You are young and there are a lot of thoughts bouncing around in both of your heads...what we have here is the failure to communicate. Some people only want to transmit and not receive information. A true man who is confident in his masculinity does not have to go around seeking strokes from other women in order to feel manly. Sometimes they forget that the green grass on the other side of the fence needs watering and fertilizing as well. He may be overwhelmed with all the responsibility...people being needy on him. The Bible says in the last days that men will wax worse and worse, so, if you don't have a Christian man to begin with then you will get someone who does not care about improving his life and character. Father in heaven, please be with this young woman and child so they will be comforted. Help her to be strong, independent and lift her share of the load...not all of it so as to render her husband useless. Help her to understand that his character and personality belong to him and God and she is not responsible for that part of the relationship. Give him courage to step up to the plate and be a true man who is loving, caring and responsible. Most of all Father help this family see the need of having you in their lives because you are the source of love, joy and peace. Forgive us all when we fail you and help us to be a blessing to at least one person each day. Thank you for all you do...in Jesus name....
† Heaven Bound Prayer Warrior †
2007-12-20 12:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are a strong woman. I can actually hear your heart in your words and when you see the photos, I was able to understand better. You have to be happy in this relationship also. Talking is something a lot of couples don't do much of these days. Ask he straight out, do you still love me, is there anything wrong. You might have already done all of this, so in that case prepare. Prepare to save your money, find more support in friend and family that you can trust, and continue to live a happy life. This will show him that I can still live a happy and wonderful like. You very pretty, a pretty face should have a happy heart. Start today and live a great life.
2007-12-20 08:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by Tray 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know of the situation, to have an opinion as what to do BUT, you will have my prayers. God Bless and I pray you get the desires of your heart. Remember that our desires aren't always God's . He will protect you and give you what you need. He does hate divorce and will protect you. If there's abuse, He may not give you what you want, until he changes and can be better to you. Keep ther faith and know that God is in control. You are very pretty and your baby looks like a little angel. Perhaps time will bring him around and if not I pray the holy hounds of God grab him and put some sense in him. Love girl.
2007-12-21 12:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by HappyCamper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a very beautiful girl and while it's wonderful you are praying for your family, truth is you can only do YOUR part as a christian. But, even prayer warriors get a no sometimes because God has a better plan of what he wants for their lives. Keep the Faith and whatever God decides...his love and mercy is more than enough to get you thru it. The mother of my kids divorced me when I first got saved. For years (20) I was still in love with her but, I see now today seriously.......God did me a favor by not forcing her to try and save our marriage
2007-12-21 22:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i am alone now but i will tell you like this- is the love you are sharing worth going through hell for??? Yes you may be alone for a while and pay child support for a while yet-- It is not easy to be alone I am but i would rather be alone then in an unhappy relationship. You are being torn apart and need to try to think about finding some type of solution-i hope she is not the mother of your kids. Relationship-not marriage then get out of it now! You need a little happiness.. Don't be afraid of stepping out the door and slamming it shut.
2016-04-10 10:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to think the worse for all you know there was someone important in front of him he did not want to show a sign of weakness by saying I love you!
Ok little girl I am going to teach you how to keep your man!
Number one never act insecure even if you are NEVER EVER show that side to a man he will walk all over your heart.
Number two never act out on anything unless you have 100% facts.
If you really want to keep him keep your mouth shut and listen more you will see how fast he will be under your spell.
Don't ever say you sacrificed this or that because women who sacrifice end up with just that a sacrifice.
Good girls get crapped on naughty tuff smart girls get what they want.
Get tuff and in control of your feelings I dont care how bad you want to call him STOP!
I dont care how much you want to cry STOP!
The only thing that will keep a man is confidence and a good sex drive and you will have the world in your hands.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-12-20 08:04:57 · answer #6 · answered by lisalisa 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump to conclusions....all bc some of the other posters mentioned an affair doesn't mean that is the case. Just try to mellow out a little. He is probably just feeling suffocated and tired of all the drama. When he comes home tonight from work, have a nice meal waiting for him and just chill. I know it will be hard, but trust me. You don't want this situation to blow up out of control.
2007-12-20 07:54:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I read both your posts and he just seems mad, I don't think he is cheating unless you have proof. I would not get so offended at the lady who said don't make a mountain out of a mole hill, two days is a long time to stay away for a "stupid fight", your words, don't fight too hard to keep things together, this just gives him attention and encouragement. I would just go with the flow I am sure things will be back to normal in a few weeks. good luck.
2007-12-20 07:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by marianne o 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
God loves you, and so do we. God is with you always. Your heaenly Father is there with you right now, loving you, and wanting to hug you.
Someday you will see Him face to face. For now, meditate on His love, and sense His peace, that surpasses all understanding.
Do some exercises, or soak in a comfortable bath, or one and then the other.
Remember to eat healthy and get enough sleep, as well as keep exercising to release pheromones into your system.
If Jesus could die in our place without disparing, how dare we ever give up???
Men are too reluctant to say "I love you". So your dad is just a guy, not free with his emotions. Do NOT take that personally. It is all about him, not you.
But your love for dad is a good thing, whether he responds or not. Love blesses the giver!
2007-12-21 10:58:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I followed the link you provided, and what a good looking family you are. Your daughter is absolutely precious! You three look very happy together when this picture was taken. Of course I will pray for you and your family! I pray the Lord will speak to his heart about how blessed he is to have a family. I pray the Lord guide you in His ways. I pray for Godly wisdom. I pray for strength. And, I pray He holds all of you close to Him during this unsettling time. God bless you, and I will keep praying for you & your family.
Lovingly,
Virginia
2007-12-20 09:28:29 · answer #10 · answered by Virginia B (John 16:33) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋