Ok my partner and i have been together for 6months now and in other things the relationship is great apart from one thing.....
He always wants blow jobs and ive told him my reasion for not giving them that often, he goes on and on about blowjobs and how hes gone from everyday getting them to nothing and that just makes me not to want to give them too him when hes like that. I enjoy giving them but only when im in the mood and i havnt hurd about him going on. What am i ment to do????
2007-12-20 08:17:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make him return the favor, or say you first. That should get you in the mood.
2007-12-20 08:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by Farley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really don't want to do that... then don't and he should respect that. There is nothing wrong with doing things with your partner as long as it is wanted BOTH ways and it is healthy for the both of you. If he cannot respect that, then you giving in even when you don't want to means settling for a purely sexual relationship that will eventually end anyway. Talk to your partner and let him know how you feel. Your comfort should come first if he really cares about YOU over BLOW JOBS.
2007-12-20 08:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Request a little 6 to the 9 action. Tell him that if he wants pleasure he needs to start giving it in return, and until then, he doesn't get anything. He just might change his tune. If not, then you can find someone that will respect you when you say no.
Also try telling him that when he keeps asking it makes you not even want to do it that much more. He might understand he might not, but at least you sent the message.
No work, no play! I hope this helps you! :)
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2007-12-20 08:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Genipher♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-04 03:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, "Bite it next time" yeah I always ask my girlfriend for head. She usually gives it to me but I don't bother her about it because I actually care about my girlfriend and we joke a lot and me always (not always) saying to give me head, well she knows I'm serious but I don't really NEED it. Basically she uses the excuse that her Jaw gets tired. and I agree, because when I go down on her my freaking tongue gets tired and it's hard to use just the tongue. Frankly it's much easier to go up and down in a sucking motion than to be licking a spot with just the tongue. You have your neck/jaw/mouth/tongue/and head muscles to back you up, we only have our tongue. Which sucks but just tell him to shut the F*ck up and stop asking or he won't be getting any. If he starts to stop give him a lil treat. Like a dog think of it. He behaves you give him a gift and let it work out like that or something.
* But on a guys point of view, Head is the best feeling in the whole god damn world. I don't know any other better feeling other than actually the vagina. But seriously, I wish I could get head for like 4 hours long, but she never does it more than 2 minutes at MOST without saying she's tired and ****. Oh well, I love her so I care for how she feels. *
2007-12-20 08:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by Chace W 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ment to do? why r u even asking that!? DO WHAT U WANT! if u dont want to then dont.
It's like i give my fiance sex all the time then he makes comments if he goes a day or two with out it like he never gets any. And i'm just like how u r. It really makes me not want to give him any. lol Just do what makes u happy and tell him u try to satisfy him but it aint all about him! lol GOOD LUCK!!~
2007-12-20 08:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by Samantha1029 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like a huge dick! A guy that wants to pressure you this hard by laying on guilt trips etc. is the same type of asshole that will find his thrills elsewhere if you don't perform. I suggest moving on. You're too young to deal with it (and no I don't care if you're 80 you're still too young to deal with jerks).
2007-12-20 08:21:18 · answer #7 · answered by Colonel Obvious AM 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you like doing it? I think you should of posted that with your question to give answerers more insight on your side of the story. My answer is do it or someone else will!!
2007-12-20 08:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by hiddengem 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG! I hear ya on this!! All he does is 'blow me this, blow me that, when ya gonna blow me, why dont you just blow me?'
And I been with him almost 3 yrs!!!
IT never ends.... its just in their nature i think!
But I always get mad n say if you would stop talkin about it n askin for it all the time, I just might do it on my own... But I hate givin them! they are not fun for me!
2007-12-20 08:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him to pls bringing up so often. that way when u do do it, it's because u want to and u know he likes it not because u feel like u have to. when he does say it so much and u do it when he mentions it i garunte he says well i only get it when i ask for it. tell him to quit asking for it. and see what happens
2007-12-20 08:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋