Last night when I was having sex with my husband... few minutes later, we stopped because he couldn't do anymore...
Why is this???
2007-12-20 08:15:47 · 84 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We're both 20... And we're not old... LOL
2007-12-20 08:19:15 · update #1
Pic please...
Does he have a favorite TV show -- or was it his Fantasy Sports league draft-night? Could have been many things... from his having GAS and being embarassed? to something happened that turned him right off (did you call him by your next-door neighbor, Raul's name?)... he might have already finished, and just not let you know that, in which case.. you may have to get a drug store test for yourself.. if there wasn't any noticeable wet spot somewhere unusual, like the rug or on your dog's forehead? Your breath might have been wiffing? (maybe you tasted like his manhood, and suddenly stopped wondering when you'd eaten mushrooms?)... he might have remembered he had to call his girlfriend or mother (even worse) by 9pm and saw the time besides the bed? Maybe he heard something outside and didn't want to get you nervous... or, thought you were yelling too loudly for the neighbors (or his mom downstairs?), and didn't want to stuff a sock in your mouth as you were screaming "fill me to the brim you madman!?"... (Are you a yella, Ella?) ....Who knows and who can tell not having been there, really.
2007-12-20 08:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 14⤊ 13⤋
It's totally not silly for a guy to moan. Why would it be? It's a damn good communication tool. If you're feeling it, it's always good to let us know - that way we know to keep on doing what we're doing! If you feel silly moaning, then you don't have to. There are other ways to tell us that you're enjoying yourself. Say something like 'that feels good', for instance, or 'don't stop'. As long as you're giving us some indication of how it's going for you, it's all good. Just don't be totally silent - it's not helpful and it's kinda weird. Don't take your sex advice from porn movies. Porn and real sex are two very different things, mainly because porn is made specifically with entertainment in mind, whereas real sex is about pleasure - nobody is going to stand there and fix your lighting.
2016-05-25 05:04:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. He could've had something physically wrong such as being raw, or had a pain that caused him to quit. He might not've been in the right frame of mind and had something really pressing on him (work related or possibly relationship related). Probably the most extreme thing could be that he just isn't interested in sex anymore for some reason. You have to talk to him to find the true answer.
2007-12-20 08:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men last longer than others on any given day!One of the biggest things about this is,long hours with less sleep will run down any man.Sometimes if things are moving too fast,or at a pace to the point of him just stopping.Get some sleep and slow down the pace a little and then see how he does.
2007-12-20 17:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by pedebeed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean he couldnt DO anymore? Did he go limp? Or was he in pain? Sometimes my bf stops if he is about to come, but then carries on. Maybe he felt pain or something else that was a little embarrassing to say. Ask him about it if it is bothering you. He might have just been having an "off" night. nothing to worry about. if it happens again, definately ask him about it. x
Sounds a bit strange if your both 20. had he been drinking? He may have been tired. I wouldnt worry at all we all have bad nights lol x
2007-12-20 08:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by ms_jaffa_cake 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you are beautiful and he loves you. this happens. just be understanding and supportive. sex is much more than the 'in&out'. it is also the way we treat each other on a day to day basis. the cuddling, the holding hands, the caress, the eating bon-bons and watching a funny movie together in bed times.
my husband works in a physically demanding job and some nights he wants to make make love but he is so exhausted he doesn't finish - i let him rest up and we have our '5am time'
have him get a physical just to rule out any problems like low blood pressure ect. and maybe there are stresses that are going on in his life - work, kids, ect. that are causing this as well.
2007-12-20 08:36:53 · answer #6 · answered by fotofarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps his mind was preoccupied with other matters that interfered with his normal sexual focus. The same situation can also affect a persons ability to sleep peacefully. The flesh may be willing in either case, but the mind controls the ball game we are playing at the time.
2007-12-20 08:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by Badger Boise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not pulling your leg here, but guys can get tired too. Maybe he got a cramp in his leg, or elsewhere. If I have already done it 2 or 3 times with my Girlfriend (which she thinks is quite amazing I might add) I sometimes cannot complete what I started.
One time with a girl we had done it 5 times, I went for six but no joy. I said "I think that was Custer's last stand"
2007-12-20 08:19:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be kidding. Tell me you're kidding. Maybe he's tired of having sex with you. Maybe he's saving himself for later so he can perform satisfactorily for his girlfriend. Maybe he couldn't imagine anyone else in his head so he could stay erect. Maybe he got tired of doing all of the work. Maybe something smelled bad. Maybe he found out you've been asking strangers questions about him and his sexual behavior.
2007-12-20 08:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by noshaymatall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness tell him all is okay... He had something stop his urge and it probabbly was because he does not feel comfortable enough to tell you what he needs.....
some of the time a guy can become over stimulated and just has to wait a day or two. But that does not mean he can not finish making your day.
2007-12-20 08:22:41 · answer #10 · answered by Linda S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This does happen sometimes... for a variety of reasons from stress and exhaustion to vitamin and/or mineral deficiencies.
I wouldnt worry unless it becomes a frequent occurrence.
The most important thing now is not to stress him out about it happening or he will be too busy worrying about it happening again to become aroused the next time you do it.
2007-12-20 08:23:32 · answer #11 · answered by karla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋