2007-12-20 08:13:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No not wrong.. admirable. And to all the people talking about a test drive think about this.. when you go to a store do you buy the tester sample of the product that everyone has "test drove" or do you dig behind the display for the new, wrapped product that no one has tested.
My friend you want to be that newly wrapped and clean product that a worthy woman will dig to find. Why settle for a woman or guy who is just a sampler ?
2007-12-20 08:23:52 · answer #1 · answered by Average Joe 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not wrong. In fact, it's right. I know many men who waited and I think their marriages are the better for it. My husband and I both waited and it was worth it in many ways. You will have a level of trust with the person that you couldn't have otherwise. To those guys who talk about the "test drive", I wonder if your partner would be pleased to hear that phrase! To nutcracker, would sex causing "problems" break up a marriage based on love, trust, and mutual attraction? You would learn to get beyond the problem. You would work at it night and day until you got it right!! From what I see from this YA category, sex before marriage is causing a lot of problems that aren't being solved without a lot of misery.
2007-12-20 08:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by Snow Globe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see Marriage 1 lasting too long if you are going to wait until Marriage 2 to have sex.
2007-12-20 08:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ii Think iits Amazing Most Boys Just Wanna Have Sex And Thats iit But As You Want To Wait it Means Your More Loyal To Her!! =)
2007-12-20 08:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by CeeCee--xo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I think it's great. It's quite rare anymore....and a lot of folks out there are looking for rarity. There are many guys who want girls who wait, so it's nice that a guy wants to wait too. It's a special thing, when u wait, because it shows character. I hope u find someone worth ur chastity...and I do hope that she will be wife materal too...and if she is, she won't mind at all, that you waited. Good luck.
2007-12-20 08:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, nothing wrong. But what if the sex caused problems after marriage (the sex is bad) because you didn't take a test drive before getting married?
I commend other couples who waited and they are happy. But sometimes it's not always the case.
2007-12-20 08:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
No.... It is an admirable thing to do..... besides having sex with someone other than your marriage partner can be dangerous.... not only disease reason but generational soul-ties.... why would you ask such a question unless it is not you who is waiting for marriage.... touche' to the guy who is... it is so rare today..... :)
2007-12-20 08:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by go away 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, there is nothing wrong with it. I waited until I was married to have sex and so did my husband and we have been together for 9 yrs and we enjoy our sex lives very much!
2007-12-20 09:26:52 · answer #8 · answered by catrice h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong. it is what God intended to happen anyway. Humans are the ones who started to test the waters before they got in and ruined what was supposed to be sacred between two people. In God's divine plan, if two virgins married, neither would have anything or anyone to compare the other to, and that would have been great.
2007-12-20 12:24:52 · answer #9 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're going to get a lot of negative thinking coming your way, but I say "GOOD FOR YOU". Having respect for yourself as well as your loved one is a wonderful start to marriage...and...there are LOTS of books out there to use after marriage if you think you might be missing anything 'cause you just didn't think of it! Have fun!
2007-12-20 08:22:50 · answer #10 · answered by Gina C 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋