we been together for like 3 years and yeah we used to do it a lot before but then science i got into church and just trying to do good i just decided to stop for the good of both of us i mean i am not ready to have a kid we dont even live together i am 19 and hes 21 but lately all he asks for is sex and sex and sex it really makes me sick what should i do i just feel like an object a toy that he can use when he feels like it i mean when we go out all he wants to do is rent a hotel go to the driveins or just to a place to have sex he does not ever worry about my feelings anymore i have not gotten flowers in like a year and he has totally changed on me i just dont know what to do and he has no job to make it worst i wish crying would fix the problem but i just learned that it wont so what can i do i am scared of leaving him really scared i think he will hurt me or himself i dont know how i go tinvolved with him this way ?
2007-12-20 06:52:55 · 5 answers · asked by *********** 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he knows how i feel i talked to him but it's like if he does not care about what i think and the only thing in his head is sex sex and sex
2007-12-20 07:11:49 · update #1
tell him the thurth that you don't want to have sex.. and all teh sex talk is making you sick.. and you just want to do good by not fornicating. and you don't want to get pregnant at a young age.. if he lives.. believe me is for the best. you should provably let him go... it is obvious that you are at different stages in your life.. and until you are ready to get marriedn and have kids,, them engage into a more meaningful lonterm realtionship, with someone who will respect you and your opinions.. IF THE GUY IS NOT RESPECTInG YOU AND YOUR OPINIONS. LEAVE HIM HE IS NOT WORTHY OF YOU!!!
2007-12-20 07:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by Susette P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you made a decision that impacted the two of you and you are wondering what again?
You had a sexually relationship and you ended that.
So in a way you have already left him.
I do agree that getting pregnant at your age is stupid, but there are other options too. Plus you may want to talk to the guy and not just make decisions that effect the both of you without letting him know.
2007-12-20 15:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a long break and ask him to wait for you. See what he does. Then you know how much he loves you!
2007-12-20 15:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u don't really feel comfortable talking about it or even doing it.... and if u have to break up with him.
2007-12-20 14:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by juliagulia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him it bothers you next time he brings it up
2007-12-20 14:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by emptyspacesppk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋