In today's world it is almost a must!
2007-12-20 06:52:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We got married young and didn't have anything to protect at all, so there really wasn't any point. We have stuff now, and I guess if we get divorced, it's going to go 50/50 now.
2007-12-20 06:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by Dolyn 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hell ya!
Actually what I would do if I ever married again is have the whole shabang the preacher ect...and not file the paperwork!
Not that I don't plan on staying married forever because if I ever did it again I would stay but I never thought I would end up with nothing in my last marraige.
When the love is gone so is everything else.
I am not letting no man take what I suffered and worked for!
If you leave your leaving with what you came into it!
2007-12-20 15:00:37 · answer #2 · answered by lisalisa 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would insist on a credit check too.
They have link the personality types of people who do not pay their bills on time as the same people that would neglect a relationship and even cheat.
2007-12-20 15:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i would insist because if i worked hard for MY house, MY car, & MY stuff etc before i get married then i get married & this girl wants to divorce me & when she leaves me she can get half of MY stuff BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED that i worked for that wouldn't be right. when u divorce u should get what u deserve during the marriage not someone's things before the marriage even happened. this is the exact reason why a growing number of men won't get married because they fear that if they divorce a woman they will be paying her for a long time. that's a why a prenup is helpful. its protects a person't assetts for they got married. you should never be allowed to get the other person's things before the marriage. they worked hard for that. they sacrificed.
2007-12-20 16:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by conan 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no.. i mean its like you are getting married knowing that one day you are getting a divorse.. i mean if there is no trust there and you think there is a divorse on the way,, why will you get married on the first place.. thats why you need communication and trust in a marriege in other to be a succesful marriage.
2007-12-20 15:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by Susette P 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm NO. We dont do it in India. Our marriages work no matter what. The secret is communication.
2007-12-20 15:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
i didn't have anything when we married and neither did he. i wouldn't unless i really had something to lose.
2007-12-20 14:56:27 · answer #7 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋