Will he return to me!?!?!?

Question

We were together for 1 year and 8 months he told me he doesnt love me no more, and that he wants to be free cos he doesnt want a serious relationship atm
i went out the next day with a friend we met up with others, and i bumped into my ex that night he saw me with this guy who apparently wants me ( me n the guy didnt do anything at all )
and then the next day my ex said he is completly over me, and im so confused i want him back i love him so much, i have cried everynight cos i want him back, and the fact im IN love with him, he keeps saying move on and crap but i dont get i how can you just get over someone you have been with for nearly two years and not even feel hurt, to be honest i think he needs to think about what he wants and he was getting stressted about driving not having a job and trying to fit me in with seeing friends and college etc...i still love him and ive told him i do and i will wait for him now im respectin his space and his dad sed he is dissapointed wiv him?

Answer 1

Wow rose! Hate yourself much? Really, this guys a kiddo by the VERY nature of how he is treating you, and you think you deserve that? Wow, are you like 300 pounds, buck-toothed, 3-eyed, one-legged, freck of nature? Cause if not you have NO right to treat yourself this way. YOU have NO F'IN RIGHT to whorship this guy!!! Your wasting yourself away, for what? Love that this man doesn't even show you? What so you can marry him someday and he can neglect you even better? Really your going down a path thats going to end with a breck-wall and your broken heart. I can't pull you out of the cage you've built around you, no one can, but I'll tell you this, its all because you love him more then yourself, makes you a wonderful survant, a horrible person, atleast to yourself..... no offense, I just look at your problem and can't help but FEEL, what a waste, what a waste..... just realize too, no matter how much you love him, its still not going to replace the love you don't show yourself, just realize, you live closer to your heart then he ever well.....