2007-12-20 06:44:09 · 26 answers · asked by Mariachi123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Back off. She's married. . . and apparently untrustworthy, too.
2007-12-20 06:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by DJ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
GET AWAY FROM HER.
she's obviously untrustworthy, she's seeing you behind his back -who can say you won't find yourself standing in his shoes five years from now? Yea, maybe the guy is a jerk but if that's the case what kind of a woman stays with a man who is no good when she has 3 children?
She sounds like bad news either way.
I'd break it off immediately and if she gives you a hard time *or* you have trouble letting her go... then just tell her she needs to be single (ie: NOT MARRIED) and stable (ie:NOT LOOKING FOR YOU TO SAVE HER) before she comes back to work on a *possible* future for you two.
Make it clear that you are not asking her to leave her husband but that she needs to be available before you can even consider pursuing a relationship with her (although i beg you not too!!!) and therefore needs to decide where her life is going before she can take you (and her three children who are more important than you, her and the hubby) on some crazy ride through her midlife fantasy....
good luck!
2007-12-20 15:06:56 · answer #2 · answered by Bunniculette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be a homewrecker. Have you ever been married before? Do you know what a broken home does to kids? Do you want to be responsible for ruining the life that these kids know? There is more at stake than just you and the this tramp. Don't play her game. Sooner or later she'll dump you for the next guy to come along. You deserve someone better someone who actually cares about her children's lives number one and someone who actually has some self respect. Get yourself some and show her the door and don't let it hit her *** on the way out.
2007-12-20 16:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by Oliverclothesoff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's playing u hard. she's only saying that to u because ur the soft guy. the guy that will listen to her. the person that will take her side. i bet she's only telling one side to this story. there is more if i think about it. i would lose her. find a girl w/out kids. believe me being w/ a girl w/ no kids is wonderful. no stress & no drama. what do u think will happen if u 2 got together & were going through some tough times. she will cry on another guy's shoulder & the cycle repeats itself.
the husband is getting played too. do u think the husband will take it easy on u if he finds out u have been seeing his wife. no son, he will want to hurt u & in some cases kill u. cut off all contact immediately & forget her. she is the reason why men will nt & should not date women w/ kids ever even though she may be great. the drama is way too much.
2007-12-20 16:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by conan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone.. shes married and if her husband finds out it might not be good news for you. Even if she did get a divorce and you two got together, what makes you think she wouldnt do the same thing to you? Once a cheater always a cheater.. but you shouldnt be messing with a married woman in the first place..
2007-12-20 14:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way I see it, if you have any pride and respect for yourself, you'll stop seeing her. She is a married woman and she has children. The worst thing you can do in a marriage is cheat. The person who's willing to cheat with a married person is just as bad as the person who cheats.
Find an available woman and leave this one alone so she can figure out what she should be doing with the rest of her life.
2007-12-20 14:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by Holly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a chump. Number one she is married so even if she does leave her husband your the flavor of the week. If she is selfish enough to give up on her marriage and put her own personal flings in front of the needs of her children, says alot about her doesn't it. And its not good. Do yourself a favor and stay away. If this women is any good why would she cheat and screw up the lives of the three children? My god man....do u honestly need advice? You obviously have doubt if your asking on here...listen to your instincts. Dump this trash. Find yourself someone who is actually worth your time....someone with morals, values, and self worth.
2007-12-20 15:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first off dump her. She is married and she is a cheater. Are you prepared to become Daddy to her three kids? Support them financially? I don't think so. You just want the Mom. If she cheats on her husband, what do you think she would do to a boyfriend? She is trash. Dump her. What could you be thinking?
2007-12-20 14:51:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
step back and take a good look at the situation. do you want to wait for her for a long time? would you be willing to take care of her three children? does she say she is looking for a way out? has this beeb going on for a long time or just started?
if any answers are no back off you can be friends but stay away from dating or you will just be hurt.
i'm not being judgemental but if you don't end it you will be hurt if she doesn't divorce him.
2007-12-20 14:55:09 · answer #9 · answered by inloveinTN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess? She is in her 30's been married over 5 years?
Normal hate my husband ect...drama
STAY AWAY
She does love her husband she just hated him now for the moment.
Date a single girl there is lots of us out here!
Good luck!
2007-12-20 14:53:15 · answer #10 · answered by lisalisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have gotten yourself into a complicated situation and the best thing to do would be to stepback and have her make up her mind.
This is no different than a man cheating on his wife. If your unhappy get out of the situation.
Are you sure she is not just playing you?
2007-12-20 14:54:16 · answer #11 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋