i love this guy. i told him how i felt today and he told me he didn't feel that way yet, but he could give me a chance. but the thing is, we are always saying "i love you" to each other, and he told me on the phone last night that he likes the sound of my voice. then i asked him what was on his mind that minute and he said i was. two problems: he has a girlfriend, and this girl that likess him also said that she would punch me if i went out with him before she got to. tell me if he likes me or not and what i should do.
2007-12-20 06:35:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw, we are both 15
2007-12-20 06:36:20 · update #1
Why waste your time. He is using you. And yes, he is probably telling the truth.
2007-12-20 06:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This wasn't what you wanted to hear was it ? and the word 'yet' must have really knocked your confidence and your pride.. he's a bit insensitive, (and I'm being kind there) and when does he propose, to give you ' a chance' when he's decided that he doesn't want to go out with this other girl ? are you prepared to play 2nd best ??
Saying 'love you' doesn't mean that he's being sincere, for him it's just a word, that he's using a lot of, both to his girlfriend (well the latest one, for now anyway..) and you.
Sorry, but you're better than this, and guys like him, like a challenge, they only are interested in what they can't have, give it to them on a plate and they get bored, very quickly, let this girl have him.
But in saying that, you don't need him, he's a user and loser, honest, go and find someone else, and I bet he'll be chasing you, but if you've any sense, you'll give him a taste of his own medicine, 'dump him' ...then tell him 'one day, you may give him a chance', if you feel like it. !!!
Be strong.. and have fun
Merry Christmas
a friend x
2007-12-20 15:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by CARAMAC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say he obviously isnt being faithful toward his current girlfriend to me that would set alarm bells ringing.
Arent you even thinking this? he already is dating a girl yet knows he has someone else interested in him who obviously sees you as competition, then there is you he has no right to state he loves you if he is with somebody else and perhaps he should be let known that.
something like this wil lead to somebody getting hurt either mentally or physically.
If he does love you as he puts it why is he still with another girl ? he is obviously loving the attention he is getting and to be frank its not worth it you should lave him to it before you get hurt, i dont know you i have never met you but if you listen to reason and look at the situation you will see that this whole fiasco isnt heathy and is he really worth the arguments or fights? he may be such a fit guy but believe me if it looks good chances are its very bad for you.
Find someone who isnt just saying things to you and that has the time and resources to make you that special person and not just shower you with comment and broken promises.
No i dont think he does love you he may say it but anyone can say i love you.
2007-12-20 14:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by Gary L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go there, there must be another guy that will treat you better. And that you won't get so much drama from if you try anything with him.
Also if you push it then you make yourself look like a b**** to all the other girls, because you forced him out of a relationship. And it probably wouldn't last long anyways....
2007-12-20 14:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by q&a99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to date this guy? If this guy is willing to flirt with you and tell you that he loves you, even though he's dating someone else, what do you think he'll do when he's dating you? He doesn't respect his girlfriend or you. If he did, then he would have broken up with her before pursuing a relationship (or hinting that he would) with you.
My recommendation: Back off. He's already taken. Focus on something (not someone) else.
2007-12-20 14:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by T. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave him alone if he has a girlfriend!
He is obviously a player and you are only 15! Find someone else!
As for this other girl that said she would punch you, don't entertain it. Hit her just for the suggestion!
xxx
2007-12-20 14:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by dms*157* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you only as a friend.
Believe what he has already told you. He doesn't like you in the same way that you like him.
Move on with your life. He already has a girlfriend and she's threatened to hurt you should you get further involved with her man.
Why do you need that kind of drama in your life?
2007-12-20 14:42:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, go after someone who doesn't have a girlfriend. Don't let that be a recurring trait you develop, it's gross.
Secondly, he is playing you right in front of your face. Move on and find someone better, believe me, there is someone out there better for you than that scumbag.
2007-12-20 14:41:19 · answer #8 · answered by No 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there... i think your situation is a little bit similar to mine. i have a boyfriend but the thing is he cannot say i love you. i may not know the reason why but i think it's because of our financial status. he is already 30 years of age but according to him if he is just financially stable he would have said that he loves me. there might be some hindrances that prevents him from saying he definitely likes you. my boyfriend can say that he likes me 100 % but cannot say he loves me. i think he has a thing for you but give it a little more time. you said that he has a girlfriend so i bet that is one of the reasons he cannot pursue a relationship with you. the important thing is you are happy with him. good luck
2007-12-20 14:43:23 · answer #9 · answered by Heart 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont waste your time with him because i have a ex girlfriend that gives me problems and she just a big distraction dont be hanging around until he dateless just find someone and move on
2007-12-20 14:44:21 · answer #10 · answered by Michael C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15? C'mon you are barely old enough to know the meaning of "in love'.You said you "like" him.Not love.If he didn't know straightaway that he likes you,maybe he plain doesn't.Anyway you are young plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-12-20 15:25:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋