my friend keeps getting beat up by her 15 year old daughter,where can she get help?
2007-12-20 06:29:46 · 7 answers · asked by marty w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The Police, have her arrested and when she is out get her emancipated and kick her out of the house.
2007-12-20 06:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by Average Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she let other people do the parenting and is now forced to establish dominance.
The parents who leave the parenting to the school system and the kids' peers, will indeed reap what they sow. They will spend more time hauling the kids to rehab clinics, bailing them out of jail, and probably supporting the little rats into their 30s.
Your friend is going to have to toughen up fast. Tough love.
She is still legally responsible for the 15 year-old, and MUST establish dominance and teach her what she is going to need to get along in the world... she only has 3 years to do it.
People cannot navigate our society without morals, ethics, responsibility and respect.
If that means instilling respect by means of a well aimed slap on the face or a doubled-up belt across their behinds, then so be it. If you have to take away prized possessions (computer, I-pod, video game), or ground them, that is fine. You do what you must to get the point across. Try to keep in mind this phrase: "what would have gotten through to me at this age?"
The parent provides for all of their needs, so the kids must obey the parents' rules. They must go to school, keep their grades up, do their homework, pick up after themselves and do whatever chores you ask of them. If they will not comply, the door is that-a-way. Parents have to handle these little insurrections hard and fast.
Your friend's daughter is not too old to spank. If she cannot step up to this, she will be faced with kicking the kid out and changing the locks.
2007-12-20 06:45:51 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure i'd surely call DCFS..I advise unfavorable new child we would desire to comprehend what he is going by way of, the rejection of a mom isn't hassle-free. he's becoming feeling rejected with 4 college that he has been kicked out of. All this new child needs is love...and endurance and somebody to take heed to his genuine thoughts. he's on the age that he would have this way of excellent form of questions and lots extra through fact mom left him. i'd besides ask your self and experience as though i did something to deserve this. attempt chatting inclusive of your ignorant pal, whether he's the way he's, she should not be abusing him this way.....much less the stupid boyfriend, I advise do despatched this woman have any love and thoughts for this new child he's her brother how can she see this different guy abuse him this way. Do the superb difficulty get that new child out of hell through fact somewhat it somewhat is the way he feels and he responds with violence through fact he's being abused this way. I continuously experience heartbroken once I hear those memories through fact those are young little ones that have not got lots decision yet to post with the abuse till they run away and do incorrect options.....good luck and attempt to furnish the main suitable suggestion on your pal for God's sake...thank you!!!!
2016-10-09 00:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The police
the United Way - they have a bunch of social services organizations under them and they can direct her to one that will be right for her. Most are sliding scale. Call the main number for the United Way listed in your local phone book.
2007-12-20 06:33:55 · answer #4 · answered by suzanne g 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs to send her daughter to a psychiatrist or to even one of those schools for troubled kids. That is serious and she needs to take charge and let her child know that she is the parent and she can send her kid to a Juvenile school if needed. She shouldn't need to take that from her daughter.
2007-12-20 06:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by Cori M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a belt,an empty room,then the police and an ambulance.yeah she is not to old to get that butt tapped now if it is due to a medical issuse then seek help but if not better nip it in the bud soon before she hurts you bad or herself or someone else.
2007-12-20 07:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a restraining order! or the next time her daughter hits her tell your friend to slap the crap out of that lil butthole!
2007-12-20 06:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by Emma:) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋