Ok so I will try to re-write this question.
Im dating this guy and Im taking a different guy to homecoming. I asked the other guy to go to homecoming before we were dating. What would you say if your gf told you that?
2007-12-20 00:39:38 · 22 answers · asked by ashley (: 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It would be fine, at my prom I promised my old friend 3 years ago that I would take her. So I stuck by my word. I had a gf at the time and she was fine with it, we just met up after at a party. Don't worry if he really loves you he would understand.
2007-12-20 00:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by Shaun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd think that it was nice of her to not want to break a promise but I would be pretty sure that this would end our relationship unless you said you can also ask ANYONE that you would like to take out somewhere, since maybe his is not in homecoming court or what ever. How do you feel about him going out with someone else? Does not matter that you made the plan before, you are still choosing someone over him and it is a date like couples situation.
2007-12-20 08:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by Scout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was somewhat in the same situation. I'm a year older than my ex and while dating, she was a senior in high school and I was already away at college. She really wanted to go to homecoming but I wasn't able to come home for it. She suggested going w/ another guy. Of course, I wasn't cool with it cause I didn't know the guy she was thinking of asking. Anyhow, after several arguments, I let her go to homecoming w/ the other guy. I still had my "boyz" back home and told them to go to the homecoming and keep an eye out for me. I told them that should the other guy try anything, beat him down for me. The other guy didn't try anything to get her but I still told my friends to beat him down. I know it was wrong but it sure made me feel better.
2007-12-20 08:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by Gunner For Life! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Such is life. Maybe your date to homecoming should stand up and let you go with your boyfriend.
But, I feel your boyfriend should understand that you are going with this guy because you made a commitment. Your boyfriend sucks, otherwise.
In the case that the guy you are taking to homecoming is a jerk and you really don't like him. Then I say screw him, go with your boyfriend.
2007-12-20 08:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by View 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but if I were in the guys position I would probably break up with you unless the guy you were taking was a very old friend whom you'd promised to go with. If you just started dating the guy, as it sounds you have, unless you want to give him reasons to think you're a loose girl, you might want to rethink this. You should tell him that you asked the guy prior to beginning dating him, and you don't want to go back on your word, but that if it upsets him you will gladly ask the other boy to find another date.
2007-12-20 08:47:06 · answer #5 · answered by willa_harper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would personally dislike the fact that your taking another guy to homecoming, just cancel it because the bf is more important but if u didn't do that I would bring a easy sl*t to homecoming to make you jealous
2007-12-20 08:43:42 · answer #6 · answered by The Big TL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it a little late for homecoming?
Anyway- can you all go together?
Are you interested in the guy that you originally asked?
If I was your new boyfriend I would say dump the first guy- you're mine now.
2007-12-20 08:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by Leah S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend will probably be mad at first, but he should understand. You made a commitment to a guy before and you have to stick with it. If he insists you shouldn't go then that's on him. Don't worry about it too much.
2007-12-20 08:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you like it if your boyfriend took someone else out on a date? I'd dump you in a heartbeat. Choose which one you want to be with.
2007-12-20 08:43:14 · answer #9 · answered by vbrown9999 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She would not be my girlfriend anymore I guarantee it, how am I supposed to watch that , and how could the other guy even go now ?
2007-12-20 08:43:45 · answer #10 · answered by BILL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋